英语翻译We often talk about ourselves as if we have permanent ge

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英语翻译
We often talk about ourselves as if we have permanent genetic defects ( 缺陷)that can never be changed.“I’ m impatient.”“I’ m always behind.”“I always put things off!”You’ ve svrely heard them.Mayde you’ ve used them to describe yourself .
These comments may come from stories adout us that have been repeated for years -often from as far back as childhood.These storie s may have no basis in fact.But they can set low expectations for us.As a child ,my mother said to me,“Marshall,you have no me chanical ( 操作机械的 ) skills ,and you will never have any mechan ical skills for the rest of your life.” How did these expectations affect my development?I was never encouraged to work on cars or be around tools.When I was 18,I took the US Army’s Mechanical Aptitude Test.My scores were in the bottom for the entire nation!
Six years later,however,I was at California University,woring on my doctor’s degree.One of my professors,Dr.Bob Tannbaum,asked me to writer down things I did well and things I could’t do.On the positive side,I took down,“research,writing,analysis,and speaking.”On the negative side ,I wrote,“I have no mechanical skills.”
Bob asked me how I knew I had no mechanical skills.I explained my life experiences and told him about my poor performance on the Army trst.Bob then asked,“Why is it that you can solve complex mathematical problems,but you can’t solve simple mechanical problems?”
Suddenly I realized that I didn’t suffer from some sort of genetic defect.I was just living out expections that I had chosen to believe.At that point,it wasn’t just my family and friends who had been strengthening my belief that I was mechanically hopeless.And it wasn’t just the Army test,either.I was the one who kept telling myself,“You can’t do this do this!”I realized that as long as I kept saying that,it was going to remain true.On the contrary,if we don’t treat ourselves as if we have incurable genetic defects,we can do well in almost anything we choose.

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wityzk 共回答了15个问题 | 采纳率93.3%
我们经常谈论自己是如果我们有永久的遗传缺陷(缺陷),可以永远不会改变.”“我不耐烦了.”“我净赚总是在后面.”“我总是把事情推!”你' ve svrely听见.你的Mayde已经用他们来描述你自己.这些评论可能来自故事已经重...
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5454445 共回答了2个问题 | 采纳率
我们经常谈论自己就好像我们身上的有些遗传缺陷永远不可改变一样。”譬如“我不耐烦了。”“我总是落后。”“我总是今日复明日!”等等,对此,你肯定是耳熟能详,或许你都用它来描述过自己。
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江南的秋天 共回答了1个问题 | 采纳率
我们经常谈论自己,如果我们有遗传性缺陷(缺陷),是永远不会改变的。”我不耐烦了。”“我总是落后。”“我总是把事情了!”你一定听过他们。也许你已经用他们来描述自己。这些言论可能来自故事对我们重复了多年的-通常可以追溯到童年时期。这些故事可能没有事实依据。但是他们可以为我们的期望值较低。作为一个孩子,我的母亲对我说,“马歇尔,你没有机械(操作机械的)技能,你将永远不会有任何机械技能,其余的你的生活”。...
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