make a marrige work是什么意思

幸福的婚姻是什么呢?
你想给新人一些什么祝福呢?
个人的观点都是不一样的,照我的观点下去,可能想结婚的都想放弃袄
!OK,In my opinion,marrige is not the love ,love is what I just think ,love is a feeling ,If i love you ,then ,I want to stay with you all the time !But ,marrige like a cage ,it makes two people feel unfree ,it adds a lot of resposibilities to the couple !And it maybe cause to qurrel & fight .and so on .只是我的观点,如果你或者是你朋友要结婚,我还是会祝福你们的!

　　one day,plato asked his teacher,"what is love?how can i find it?"
　　his teacher answered:"there is a vast wheat field in front. walk forward without turning back,and picl only one stalk. if you find the most magnigicen stalk,then you have found love."
　　plato walked forwaed ,and a long time passed before he returned with empty hands,having picked nothing.
　　his teacher asked,"why did you not pick any stalk?'
　　plato answered:"because i could only pick once, and yet i could not turn back,i did find the most magnificen stalk,but did not know if there were any better ones ahead,so i did not pick it .as i walked further, the stalks that i saw were not as good as the earlier one, so i did not pick any in the end."
　　his teacher then said:"and that is love."
　　one another day, plaot asked his teacher,"what is marriage?how can i find it?
　　his teacher answered,"there is a thriving forest in front.walk forward withour turning back,and chop down only one tree. if you find the tallest tree,then you found marriage."
　　plato walked forward, and before long,he returned with a tree. the tree wsa not thriving and it was not tall either.it was only an ordinary tree.
　　his teacher asked:"why did you chop down such an ordinary tree?"
　　plato answered:"because of my previous experience. i had walked through the field, but returned with empty hands.this time, i saw this tree, and i felt that it was not bad. so i chopped it down and brough it back. i did not want to miss the opportunity."
　　his teacher then said:"and that is marriage. you see son, love is the most beautiful thing to happen to a person, it's an opportunity but you don't realize its worth when you have it but only when ir's gone like the field of stalks. Marriage is like the tree you chopped. it's a compromise, you pick the first best thing you see and learn to live a happy life with it."

我试图使婚姻誓言说话算数.

这里and前后的result和extense都是名词...
有条语法是：the + 形容词 = 表示某一种类的名词
and前后的形势保持一致是对的,多以这里的extense应该理解为名词,所以名词后面加of表示“...的”就可以理解咯~
我现在在澳洲留学,这边的外国人也没有说每个词都那么严谨,即便是个形容词只要人家能明白,有时候都乱用词性的~就跟我们平常说中文也没多么在意过词性语法一样~所以咯~

是插入语.
句义：若亲密关系、爱情、婚姻三者互相关联,则它们是三个不同的话题.

I will always remember that night, as usual, I look at sports news, the shower washed out his wife said to me: "I hear how a more Heizhi?"
I am a person without medical knowledge, women like to feel surprised, it is ignored.
It should be said that our life is very harmonious, very cosy. I am in the company from the Vocational, when she played a full-time wife. I Santianliangtou to work overtime, travel frequently, and sometimes a walk is three weeks. The road, people will be very worried about how physical the elderly at home, how kids like homework. I always leisurely assured, and I know that she will be to take care of my parents, her son will be counselling homework. In fact, envy and admire her as much as my people. In the eyes of others, she no nine-to-five bosses look to see, we have bought a car and was located in the Central and Western Sanshiliangting. Although we do not know is how romantic story, but feelings have always been very good.
My wife used to be a pharmacist, it is medical knowledge, she knew that this baffling, superficial, suddenly out of the Heizhi is likely to be a problem. See her own doctors, the diagnosis of skin cancer is down. This result, we immediately had threatened Doping. In those days, I accompany her throughout the Shanghai's most famous hospitals. All the same diagnosis, and a very famous doctor told me that she was in the cancer mortality rate is 90%! Skin cancer is an issue of the utmost danger.
Soon, as doctors predicted, her legs, arms, the backs have also sprouted new Heizhi to. Her body and spirit gradually started to decline.
I have the impression, I will occasionally cold fever stomach pain, my wife almost no sick time. But now, she has finally Tangdao Xianbuzhu a hospital bed.
She has not become Lenglengqingqing the home. There is no heat in the kitchen, bathroom toilet, furniture and Mongolia are grey. Before the warmth of the bright, comfortable feeling on the back of the place, I almost became a local understanding of either. I have a lot of things at home is even stranger, use the microwave to thaw, Zheng Fan, I Gaolebantian do not know which files were used, careered through a coffee or tea, a bowl of instant noodles cook, heat a bowl of soup, the flavor of Lane out how she is with the Lane not the same. Previously, she handed it to me easily on the daily necessities, I now search of the drawer had not been found.
From her hospital, I began to take the leave, please leave, to accompany her more. Because I understand that at this time, if not a home, if the family do not have a considerate wife, men earn more money, more scenery outside is empty.
Trends in the deterioration of her condition when I, an acquaintance told in Guangzhou have a specialized treatment of such skin cancer hospital, where similar cases have been cured, but the high cost of a course of three months, some over 30 million, the cure rate was about 30%. When I told this news to his wife, was suffering pain in her near-absence of clear to me that the last three words: I want to live! Really, I had never feel how much we love couples, but that moment, I think we are the world's issue of the utmost love and the most suitable for couples of men and women, we have to live with how well. She wants to live, I asked her. We must together with the elderly, such as his son grew up together, listening to our son's son shouted "Grandpa, Grandma." I made the determination Peichiqu Guangzhou. Please leave me to the company, I also heard a colleague in a low voice said: "If I was on the Province, 300000 hey, if not cured, not just both life and wealth."
Said those words were not of the family will be sad to leave, nor do I know this line vigor to our hopes. At that time, I think, even if it is 600000, 1000000, the house sold the car sold, as long as she can live, I also willingly.
Prior to Guangzhou, near my home in need of some supermarkets to buy daily necessities. On the eve of the Mid-Autumn Festival, supermarkets are everywhere happily face, people speak with a smile. I think all of a sudden, I happy with the group of people quarantined, all欢声笑语wife from the disease that has been carved since I have no relations with the.
According to her, I opened my list to buy a lot of daily necessities, when I go out to the bag when that heavy, over the years, the family used to eat all the arrangements for her properly by Tuotie paste, and I never knew How much money a bag of rice, oil barrel how much money, I never knew these things from the supermarket transported to the home is also a matter tired. I think that once the backbone is my home when she suddenly collapsed, I realized that she is the backbone of the family.
We married in Guangzhou spent the days since the issue of the utmost intimate, that three months, we live Cunbubuchi overnight, often with laughter with tears, could not recall how long we do not have to have such a heart-to-heart conversation. Treatment from the beginning of the month, she seems to think that a good point. Occasionally, I also Chanzhao her casual stroll in the garden. We recalled in the People's Park in front of the first meeting, the first victory of the movies in the cinemas, is called a "final emotional," the Italian film, she is also remember that Roland starring Sofia. She told me, in fact, I see her about the film, she has read together with the students, but she did not bear rejected me, so together with me and read it again. We seem to be the only circumstances in the honeymoon memories of the time and is now said, felt sad. Married so many years, we have never said that with so many words.
Three months, I saw her slowly haggard, special treatment for her non-functional, she finally has a bowl of congee with no less than a drink. By then, she said to me: "I want to go home." Thus, we were very desperate to return to the home.
Home, her body growing weak, and cancer patients is most afraid of pain beginning to show. She sleepless night after night, night after night to be tortured in pain Nianzhuaifance painful groans, painkillers also a non-functional. I wish to substituting her suffering, and her pain. I do not really have to use the power of individuals to bear this painful.
Occasionally she felt a little better when I began to explain to the family. I only know that a family quarrel, so much so cumbersome, she usually in the home of a person how busy. She also told me that every time I ate the delicious feel bad shoes in the hotel bought doing, I usually wear underwear which brand to buy, supermarket, you can buy. Three days before the death, she even taught me how to use washing machines. That has spent a good few years I was the washing machine with her to buy, bought after she has been in operation.
Dying a few days ago, she said to me, marriage, she was happy, we have three months in Guangzhou, her life is the happiest day. It will be three months of the collection of my life, though, because these three months, I lost promotion opportunities, lost many material things, but with the Xiangshou than with his wife, all things have become Juanwaizhiwu. Fortunately, it has three months, otherwise my life will be disturbed conscience.
The day of her death, very calm. I told her son, and her mother went to another place, and so we, in the future we will reunite there, then, the mother or the mother, father or father, he is still our children.
Now, I fear most people happy to see a three, each passing through the park, passing the original victory cinemas, passing us in the supermarket stores visited, I could not help Yaoku. Use the washing machines, microwave ovens at the time, I find seasons for their son's clothes, home late in overtime for their own bubble of instant noodles, in the middle of the night awake, a person sleeping in the bed那张time, I want to cry. In her time, I did not feel anything special happiness, and she is also my feelings of good years of marriage his wife, the child's mother. She is not the time, as if the skies are falling down.
Previously seen the television show men in love after the death of crying, I think it is sensational performances, I followed him in tears. The day on the road to see a non-remunerated blood donation vehicle. I thought she had. I remember once, organized blood donation units. Just my turn, after she had heard that I had asked in all seriousness: "Can I replace you? I do not work anyway. Rest can be in the home." I also laugh her: "sick, so that they know not to laugh I die. "I offer blood End home, she has done for me and spinach Zhuganshang Chidou liensinine atherosclerosis. I thought that the son she often said: "The most difficult to make money at home Dad, Dad most important." Actually, she is the most important, not her, and his son who has lost two of the most important -- happy things.
I bought her a Sheshan Point tomb. I Yonggongbi painted: "wife" of the word, especially saddened heart. I am not a good at expression of the feelings of the people, falling in love when she said I do not have "love" word.
See her sometimes turned Qiong Yao's novels, for the television show of love and tears, but also laughter her. Now, "love" word, I had only written in her tombstone. My wife, if she can live up to, I am willing to hundreds everywhere she said that the "love" word, all the women are willing to from his wife's mouth countless times to hear the words, why, I I hope she did not say when, in her health when she said that several more ah? !
I wanted to tell the health and happiness to the lives of her husband, a good care of your wife and to leave more time to his wife, not to overlook her for everything you do. There are many things not to lose her better understood.
His wife, is the world's favorite you, and the most you know, and the most you are willing to pay for all women, and any Nannu:zhiqing between husband and wife are not the same compared to the true feelings.
Postscript: men must know how to cherish their women, sometimes in life you need the quiet enjoyment, not to overlook the family money. The wife is a man's life responsibilities, the need to carefully protected.
找了很长时间,不知道满不满意呵^^