talk with_____,take about_____

You may want to be able to talk about with them.
不好意思没看全，额...... 前面的同学回答是对的。 :-)

每个词组的意义,都必须在有具体上下文的条件下,才能有确切的含义.这是英语的特点之一.换言之,任何单词、词组在离开具体语境的情况下,都没有意义.
但在笼统意义上,这些字词和词组似乎都差不多,我这里主要说它们的差别.
talk to 和talk with 的差别在于,talk to 大多数是由谈话方占据谈话的主导地位,对方以听为主,当然也可能随时插话,但这种谈话多为上司、长辈、老师对下属、晚辈、学生的谈话,有略微的lecture性质,如果完全是一方在说话,另一方只是听,它几乎和 talk at可以划等号.如果是同级的,如同事、同学、朋友之间,用talk to会有不礼貌的嫌疑.talk with 大多是谈话双方平等的对话,是conversation性质的,而不是有一方占主导位置.这个词组比talk to更尊敬对方.但是需要注意的一点是,talk to不是绝对的one-way （一方在说话,另一方只是听）的谈话.
talk with例子：May I speak/talk with you about a problem I'm having?（双方交换意见）
talk to例子：Oh,you say my son caused some problems?I shall talk to him tonight.含义是我得好好说说他（训他）,让他懂点规矩.
talk about是指商谈,= discuss,about后面直接加谈论的对象,即about是介词,talk是个不及物动词,需要带宾语时用about帮忙塔桥.
例子：The author talks about the different aspects of this question.
而talk of 有两种情况,一是在诗歌或文学作品中,这个词组相当于talk about.
例：The time has come,the Walrus said,to talk of many things...of shoes and ships and sealing-wax,of cabbages and kings...and why the sea is boiling hot,and whether pigs have wings.--- Lewis Carroll
二是,它是一种非常随便的用法,追究起来,甚至属于错误用法,一般情况下,speak of 是更正确的,可取代之.建议不要轻易使用talk of.
speak to大多数时候和talk to是一样的,指对某种具体事宜进行的,或一方为主的谈话.
如：I will speak to him about this particular issue.
chat with 和 talk with,speak with 一样,都是互动式的谈话,唯一不同的是,chat with更随便些,有聊天的性质.这里的chat,talk,speak都是不及物动词的用法.
say 相比较而言,是这里最为宽泛的词,是既是个不及物动词,也是个及物动词,say在很多时候都用作及物动词,后面可以直接加宾语.
例如：Many folks say that lemons are bitter but I've always found them to be refeshing.

talk to 对谁说话 强调有话向对方说
talk with 和谁说话 强调双方沟通

不能
一般
talk with sb
talk about sth

talk to sb 意思是对某人讲话,介词TO 表示"方向",表示一个人要对另一个人讲话,但是不表示对方也需要讲话,主要是强调告诉某人什么事,而talk with sb 则表达的是和某人一起谈论什么事物,与某人一起交谈,双方都要发表言论,相互沟通,介词WITH表示"一起
alk to 强调谈话的对象是”单向的”．如：I am talking to Tom.(强调"I"单方面的对"Tom 在谈话）
talk with 强调谈话的对象是”双向的”．如：I am talking with Tom.(强调"I"和"Tom"在相互谈话）

1.talk about
谈论关于……
例子：We are talking about the new math teacher.我们正在谈论新的数学老师.
2.talk to
对……说（有时候与talk with相等）
例子：I talked to that famous singer yesterday.我昨天与那位著名的歌手谈话.
3.talk with
与……交谈（有时候与talk to相等）
例子：I talked with her yesterday and I thought I should learn from her.昨天我与她交谈,而且我想我应该向她学习.

Talk about,.后接谈论物talk with后接人

首先是he talks with him
我记得speak with和talk with没有什么区别,都是与某人谈话的意思
要具体分的话,speak with强调的是个行为动作,比talk with要短暂

基本一样,但是前者更正式、庄重些

一般时候 ,如果不是刻意区分,是可以互换的,如果非要区别：talk to 和speak to 指的是一方对另一方,用在高一级与低一级的人说话,如“上司对下属”就用to,而talk with 和 speak with是指两方的,不分主次,是平级的.

My grandmother is talking to my mother.我奶奶正在和我妈妈谈话.
Teacher is talk with us.老师正在和我们谈论.

talk to,对...说
talk with,与...谈话
talk about,谈论关于...议题
talk of谈到...

had a talk to 或 had a talk with sb have a/talk with to s

talk with 是指谈话的双方有交流（相对来讲）.
但是talk to 所要表达的是某人在说,对方一直呈“听”的状态,当然间或也有交流,但是侧重于一个人说,另一个人听的意思.

My grandmother is talking to my mother.我奶奶正在和我妈妈谈话.
Teacher is talk with us.老师正在和我们谈论.