3级的 很简答的Being assertive ( 过分自信) is being able to communicate

3级的 很简答的
being assertive ( 过分自信) is being able to communicate with other people clearly.if you felt that you had expressed what was important to you and allowed the oilier person to respond in their own way then,regardless of the final outcome,you behaved assertively.it is important to remember that being assertive refers to a way of coping with confrontations ( 对抗).it does not mean getting your own way every time or winning some battle of wits against another person.in practice assertive behaviour is usually most likely to produce a result which is generally acceptable to all concerned,without anyone feeling that they have been unfairly treated.
x05assertiveness is often wrongly confused with aggression (侵犯行为).an aggressive confrontation is when one or both parties attempt to put forward their feelings and beliefs at the expense of others.in an assertive confrontation,however,each *** stands up for their personal rights,but each shows respect and understanding for the other’s viewpoint.
x05the reason why assertiveness may not come naturally is that we often tend to believe that we must talk around a subject rather than be direct,or that we must offer excuses or justifications forour actions.
x05in fact we all have a right to use assertive behaviour in a variety of situations.we are often schooled early in life to believe that sometimes our own need to,express ourselves must take secondary place.for example,in dealing with those in privileged positions such as specialists,we often feel that speaking assertively is,in some way,"breaking the rules".everybody has certain basic human rights,but often we feel guilty about exercising them.
x0556.according to the passage,an assertive person ________.
x05[ a ] makes other people feel unfairly treated
x05[ b ] puts forward his ideas at the expense of others
x05[c] does not show respect to other people
x05[ d ] speaks out what he wants to say forcefully
x0557.which of the following is not the reason that many people prefer not to be assertive?
x05[a] they would rather be aggressive than be assertive.
x05[b] it’s often better to give people hints than to be straightforward.
x05[c] their needs to express themselves take secondary place before important persons.
x05[ d] they tend to give excuses and justifications for their actions.
x0558.the last word of the passage "them" refers to _________.
x05[a] rules [b] actions
x05[c] personal rights [d] privileged positions
x0559.according to the passage,one should not only express himself clearly and directly,but also
x05[ a ] make other people accept his ideas
x05[ b ] be careful with his manner
x05[ c] allow others to speak in their own way
x05[d]watch other people’s response
x0560.in this passage,the author intends to encourage people to _____.
x05[ a ] fight for their personal rights
x05[ b] be aggressive when they talk to others
x05[ c j assert themselves regardless of whether others suffer or not
x05[ d ] be assertive at any time