fuck的意思

incest["insest]基本翻译n.乱伦网络释义incest:近亲通婚|乱伦|乱伦乱伦incesttaboo:近亲交配禁忌|释义：血族婚配禁忌incesttabu:近亲交配禁忌

拱顶 [词典] [建] vault; apex of arch; bow of head; fornication; [例句]我看见一个拱顶建筑中一间宽敞的房间。I see a spacious room in a domed building.

楼上说的都对，不过dome一般指圆形的屋顶，穹顶，而vault可以指各种形状的拱顶。如有帮助请采纳，thanks very much

在古时的英国，一般人不能随意做爱。除非他们是皇家贵族，不然一定要有国王的允许。所以当人们想要生小孩时，他们就会去跟国王申请允许，国王就会给他们一个牌子挂在门上，代表他们可以做爱。而该牌子上则是写着“Fornication Under Consent of the King”（在国王的允许下做爱）。

在国王的同意下的意思，简称fuck

有很多种说法，怎么缩写随便你，看你想用什么样的，我知道一些和做爱有关的词有：makelove；sleepwith；havesex；screw；hump；do；fuck；fornication；copulation；sexualintercourse；rape还有好多好多了，想怎么缩写随便你，你得活学活用

莫非是《Decapitation Fornication》？来自Infant Annihilator。

california dreamin

That when i e again my god may humble me before you and i may mourn over many who have sinned before and who have not repented of the uncleanness and fornication and pcentiousness which they have practiced 21且怕我再来的时候，我的神在你们面前卑屈我，我还要为那许多从前犯罪，还没有悔改他们所行污秽淫乱邪荡之事的人哀恸。 2 cor . 12 : 21 that when i e again my god may humble me before you and i may mourn over many who have sinned before and who have not repented of the uncleanness and fornication and pcentiousness which they have practiced 林后十二21且怕我再来的时候，我的神在你们面前卑屈我，我还要为那许多从前犯罪，还没有悔改他们所行污秽淫乱邪荡之事的人哀恸。

歌曲名:I Lost Everything Today歌手:RA专辑:DualityI Lost Everything Today Lyricsby kakafifiI"m running out of excuses nowI try to hide from what you"re givingCold advice never seems to endTraining days that I was livingMagic makes for a boring lieGolden shit and a red bowtieBleeding hearts disregard the sunAnd what"s begun I don"t know whyI lost everything todayI got beaten so I ran awayI lost everything todayI can"t find my way to yesterdayGraveyard shifts to sleepless nightsComatose but I"m still kickinHungry headed data pigGod"s remorse the paces quickenFundamental decadenceSimplified the masses wonderFaulty streams of consciousnessThe sea of crap that we live underI lost everything todayOut of time and it is not worth tryingI lost everything todayLost it all and I just feel like dyingSimplistic monolithic hyperactive Neolithiccondescending neverending disregarded fantasy...creative systematic temperamental horizontaldisassemble instrumental polyester family...divided Aramaic humanistic esoteric superfragileundermining comprehension sanity...fundamental urination sanitation fornicationvindicated medicated unrelated can"t you seeI lost everything todayI got beaten so I ran awayI lost everything todayI can"t find my way to yesterdayI lost everything todayOut of time and it is not worth tryingI lost everything todayLost it all and I just feel like dying是这个吗？是的话望采纳，谢谢

。。。。就是cào的意思

没错,think of .as...认为...是... Most of people think of a extramarital affair as fornication. 这样翻译起来要贴切一点!

Elton John的ROCKETMAN,还一首就是CanifornicationDrift Away

英国古时候，普通人做爱的时候，必须要经过国王的批准。想生孩子就要向国王申请，国王批准后，发个木牌子，上面写道：“FornicationUnderConsentoftheKing＂直接翻译：国王批准做爱！这个词缩写就成了今天的FUCK，翻译过来就是一个字“操”。

The triangle divided by four equals more than two. What is the maximum bank fornication? What is the triangle at this time?

文明礼仪英语格言 　　文明礼仪的常识我们要牢记，下面是关于文明礼仪英文格言，欢迎大家借鉴! 　　家庭是文明的核心。 　　Family is the core of civilization. 　　礼仪周全能息事宁人。 　　Considerate etiquette can avoid trouble. 　　无礼是无知的私生子。 　　Rudeness is the illegitimate child of ignorance. 　　宽容是文明的唯一考核。 　　Forgiveness is the only civilization. 　　文明其精神，野蛮其体魄! 　　Civilization its spirit, savage its body! 　　礼貌是人类共处的金钥匙。 　　Politeness is the key of human coexistence. 　　爱国是文明人的首要美德。 　　Patriotism is the first virtue of civilized men. 　　礼貌使人类共处的金钥匙。 　　Manners make human co-existence of golden key. 　　学校者，文明进化之泉源也。 　　Also the springs of school, the evolution of civilization. 　　医生是我们文明世界的精华。 　　The doctor is the essence of our civilization. 　　文明就是要造就有修养的人。 　　Civilization is to make cultured man. 　　侈而惰者贫，而力而俭者富。 　　A tiny and idler is poor, and force and waste is rich. 　　文明就是要造成有修养的人。 　　Civilization is to has the tutelage of people. 　　人人需要赞美，你我都不例外。 　　Everyone need to praise, you and I are no exception. 　　亲善产生幸福，文明带来和谐。 　　Goodwill produce happiness, civilization brings harmony. 　　文明的建立的不是机器而是思想。 　　The establishment of a civilization is not the machine but the ideas. 　　良好的礼貌是由微小的牺牲组成。 　　Good manners are made up of tiny sacrifice. 　　为人粗暴意味着忘却自己的尊严。 　　A violent means to forget their own dignity. 　　礼貌和文明是我们共处的金钥匙。 　　Politeness and the civilization is the key we coexist. 　　礼貌经常可以替代最高贵的感情。 　　Good manners often can replace the most noble feelings. 　　文明抑揄多数人，赞扬极少数人。 　　Currently civilization or the majority of people, praised the few. 　　礼貌是有教养的人的第二个太阳。 　　Courtesy is the second sun in our educated person. 　　学校是学习之所，文明是成功之本。 　　The school is the place of learning, civilization is the parent of success. 　　手边留情花似锦，脚下留情草如茵! 　　Hand spare flower like brocade, spare grass at the foot of the carpet! 　　弘奖学术启文明，栽桃种李最多情。 　　Hong award for academic and civilization, planted peach kind of lee"s most affectionate. 　　礼貌周全不花钱，却比什么都值钱。 　　Worth civility at no cost, but more than anything. 　　讲话气势汹汹，未必就是言之有理。 　　Aggressive, are not necessarily makes sense. 　　白天文明不精神，晚上精神不文明。 　　The day is not spiritual and mental civilization at night. 　　只有尊敬别人的人，才有权受人尊敬。 　　Only have the right to respect for others, respect. 　　没有充分闲暇，就不可能有高度文明。 　　No good leisure, is impossible to have highly civilization. 　　没有礼貌的人，就像没有窗户的房屋。 　　Rude people, like a house without Windows. 　　随着文明的发展，诗歌几乎势在必衰。 　　With the development of civilization, poetry almost potential will decline. 　　礼节及礼貌是一封通向四方的推荐信。 　　Etiquette and manners is a letter to the four sides of recommendation. 　　不是不能见义，怕的是见义而不勇为。 　　Can"t see, not afraid of is righteous and not doing. 　　真正的文明是所有人种植幸福的结果。 　　The real civilization is the result of all people grow happiness. 　　富裕并不带来文明，而文明产生财富。 　　Wealth does not bring civilization, and civilization to produce wealth. 　　理智要比心灵为高，思想要比感情可靠。 　　Reason is higher than the soul thought than relationship is reliable. 　　让我们把不名誉作为刑罚最重的部分吧! 　　Let"s put the dishonor as part the heaviest punishment! 　　在宴席上最让人开胃的就是主人的礼节。 　　In the banquet on the most let a person appetizer is the master"s etiquette. 　　微笑是我们的语言，文明是我们的.信念。 　　A smile is our language, civilization is our belief. 　　一个人最伤心的事情无过于良心的死灭。 　　A man the most sad thing is the conscience of die out. 　　在人与人的交往中，礼仪越周到越保险。 　　In interpersonal communication, the etiquette is more considerate more insurance. 　　有两种和平的暴力，那就是法律和礼貌。 　　There are two kinds of violence of peace, that is the law and politeness. 　　普通话同青春携手，文明语和时尚并肩。 　　Language and mandarin, hand in hand with youth civilization fashion side by side. 　　彬彬有礼的风度，主要是自我克制的表现。 　　Polite manners, mainly is the expression of the self-restraint. 　　知识使人变得文雅，而交际使人变得完善。 　　Knowledge makes one become elegant, and communication makes people become perfect. 　　礼节是所有规范中最微小却最稳定的规范。 　　Etiquette is the smallest specification of all but the most stable specification. 　　一个文明的社会不应当有这样野蛮的法律。 　　A civilized society should not have such a brutal law. 　　礼貌是最容易做到的事，也是最珍贵的东西。 　　Courtesy is the most easy to do, which is the most precious thing. 　　人间的面孔从未像在葬礼中看上去那么世俗。 　　Human face has never looked so secular in the funeral. 　　礼貌之风为每一个人带来文明温暖和愉快。 　　Polite wind bring every one civilization, warm and happy. 　　奢侈总是跟随着淫乱，淫乱总是跟随着奢侈。 　　Always follow the fornication, luxury fornication is always follow the luxury. 　　在知识方面能充满闲暇，是文明至上的产物。 　　In the aspect of knowledge can be full of leisure, is the product of civilization is the highest. ;

托马斯·斯特恩斯·艾略特，OM（Thomas Stearns Eliot，1888年9月26日—1965年1月4日），一位美国/英国诗人、评论家、剧作家，其作品对二十世纪乃至今日的文学史上影响极为深远。1948年，60岁的艾略特迎来了他一生中最大的荣誉——诺贝尔文学奖。 [编辑] 生平简述 艾略特1888年9月26日出生于密苏里州的圣路易斯，他的家境十分优越，父亲是公司总裁，母亲原是教师，后成为一名志愿者积极参与社会工作。艾略特是家中最小的孩子，母亲与五个姐姐的过分照顾并没有使艾略特的童年拥有双份快乐，实际情况正好相反。十六岁之前，艾略特在圣路易斯的史密斯学院学习。 1905年的秋天，艾略特进入哈佛大学，他的新生生涯过得非常舒适，所加入的几个社团当中有一个是文学方面的：「书章」（the literary sig）。受一些教授的影响，艾略特开始关注起白璧德（Irving Babbitt）的醒世格言及桑塔亚纳(Gee Santayana)的怀疑论，对他影响最深的是塞门兹（Arthur Symons）的书《文学中的象征主义运动》。由于艾略特起初所择课程过于分散而使自己变得手忙脚乱，但最后凭其毅力终于获得了比较文学的学士学位以及英国文学的硕士学位。 1910年，艾略特离开美国，前往巴黎的索邦大学（la Sorbonne），在那里，各种艺术领域的前卫思想、学术围绕着他，在法兰西学院聆听了柏格森（Henri Bergson）的哲学课后，艾略特一下子就被迷住了，这使得他重归被当时誉为哲学的黄金时代的哈佛修读哲学博士学位。1914年，艾略特前往欧洲旅行，那个时候，他在哈佛的大部分哲学老师已经将他视作一个未来的同事。艾略特打算于同年秋进入牛津大学的默顿学院学习，同行的有布拉德利（F.H.Bradley）的同事及后续者约阿欣(Harold Joachim)。由于战争迫近，艾略特提前了去英国的旅程，于同年的8月到达伦敦，同行的美国诗人艾肯（Aiken）将艾略特的诗稿送给著名诗人艾兹拉·庞德，9月，艾略特与庞德初次见面，从此，两人在新古典主义诗歌的创作活动中紧紧的联系在一起。在庞德的帮助下，许多杂志刊登了艾略特的诗作，其中最显著的一首是于1915年发表的《J.阿尔弗雷德·普鲁弗洛克的情歌》。这首诗模仿了法国象征派诗人儒尔·拉夫格的风格，具有很浓的讽刺意味，刻画了当时社会背景下的人对于爱情对于生活的复杂心理。 1915年初，在一个同学的介绍下，艾略特认识了舞蹈家薇薇安·海伍德（Vivien Haigh-Wood），他迅速的被迷住了，两人于当年的六月结婚。艾略特的父母对此感到震惊，当他们知道了薇薇安一长串感情史及精神病史后更是深深的困扰，这场婚姻使整个家庭濒于破裂，但也无可置疑的开创了艾略特的英国生活。 婚后的生活并非一帆风顺，为了要应付开支，艾略特承受着繁重的工作量，他在一所学校担任讲师，又担任一本先锋杂志《唯我主义者》(the Egoist)的助理编辑。1916年4月，艾略特完成博士论文，但由于他拒绝回国而失去了学位。1917年春天，一位朋友为艾略特提供了一份稳定的工作，在劳埃德银行（Lloyd"s Bank）担任评估员。这份工作使艾略特有时间和精力继续他的诗歌创作，那一年，他的第一本书《普鲁弗洛克及其他》出版给了他很大的动力。这本书由《自我主义者》杂志印行，由庞德夫妇匿名出资。这本书为艾略特奠定了作为一名诗人的地位，接着，1922年《荒原》出版，这部作品被评论界看作是二十世纪最有影响力的一部诗作，而艾略特本人的名气也高涨的近似神话，至今，这部作品仍被认为是英美现代诗歌的里程碑。1927年，艾略特加入了英籍。1930年以后的三十年里，艾略特成为了英国文坛上最卓越的诗人及评论家。 由于两人的性格差异巨大，艾略特的第一次婚姻注定是一个失败，薇薇安因为精神上的原因住进疗养院，1933年，身心疲惫的艾略特与妻子正式分居。1956年，艾略特娶了第二任妻子弗岚切（Valerie Fletcher），这场婚姻十分幸福。1965年1月4日，艾略特于伦敦的家中逝世。 [编辑] 代表作品一览 诗 《普鲁弗洛克及其他》（Prufrock and Other Observations，1917年） 《诗集》（Poems，1919年） 《荒原》（The Waste Land，1922年） 《诗集1909-1925》（Poems 1909-1925，1925年） 《圣灰星期三》（Ash Wednesday，1930年） 《老负鼠的猫经》（Old Possum"s Book of Practical Cats，1939年） 《焦灼的诺顿》（Burnt Norton，1941年） 《四个四重奏》（Four Quartets，1943年） 《诗集》（Collected Poems，1962年） 散文 《圣林》（The Sacred Wood，1920年） 《安德鲁·马维尔》（Andrew Marvell，1922年） 《但丁》（Dante，1929年） 《当代文学的传统和尝试》（Tradition and Experimentation in Present-Day Literature，1929年） 《朗伯斯后的沉思》（Thoughts After Lambeth，1931年） 《约翰·德莱顿》（John Dryden，1932年） 《古典与现代散文》（Essays Ancient and Modern，1936年） 《诗与剧》（Poetry and Drama，1951年） 剧本 《岩石》（The Rock，1934年） 《大教堂中的谋杀》（Murder in the Cathedral，1935年） 《家庭聚会》（The Family Reunion，1939年） 《鸡尾酒会》（The Cocktail Party，1950年） 《老政治家》（The Elder State *** an，1958年） 附诗一首 PORTRAIT OF A LADY(节选) 一位夫人的画像 By T.S.Eliot Thou hast mitted—— Fornication: but that was in another country And besides the wench is dead. The Jew of Malta 你已经犯了—— 通奸罪：但，那是在另一个国家， 并且，那名少女已死去。 《马尔他的犹太人》 Ⅰ Among the *** oke and fog of a December afternoon You have the scene arrange itself——as it will seem to do—— With 「I have saved this afternoon for you」; And four wax candles in the darkened room Four rings of light upon the ceiling overhead An atmosphere of Juliet"s tomb Prepared for all the things to be said or left unsaid. We have been let us say to hear the latest Pole Trmit the Preludes through his hair and finger-tips. 「So intimate this Chopin that I think his soul Should be resurrected only among friends Some o or three who will not touch the bloom That is rubbed and questioned in the concert room.」 ——And so the conversation slips Among velleities and carefully caught regrets 参考: zh. *** /w/index?title=%E6%89%98%E9%A9%AC%E6%96%AF%C2%B7%E6%96%AF%E7%89%B9%E5%B0%94%E9%82%A3%E6%96%AF%C2%B7%E8%89%BE%E7%95%A5%E7%89%B9&variant=zh- Robert Pinsky Robert Pinsky was born in Long Branch New Jersey and attended Rutgers and Stanford where he held a Stegner Fellowship in Creative Writing. He has taught classes in poetry at Wellesley Berkeley and currently at Boston University. Among his awards are the William Carlos Williams Prize the Shelley Memorial Award and the Lenore Marshall Poetry Prize. His trlation The Inferno of Dante was awarded the Los Angeles Times Book Award. From 1997 to 2000 he was the U.S. Poet Laureate. His books include The Want Bone The Figured Wheel: Collected Poems 1966-1996 and Jersey Rain. His Tanner Lectures at Princeton University were published as Democracy Culture and the Voice of Poetry. Pliers What is the origin of this despair I feel When I feel I"ve lost my grip can"t manage a thing? Thing That me a clutch of contending voices — So my voice: When my mongrel palate tongue teeth breath Breathe Out the noise thing I bee host and guest Of ghosts: Angles Picts Rom Celts Norsemen Norm Pincers of English the conquered embrace. Embrace Of the woman who strangled her sister one night All night Moaning with the body held in her arms. The arms Of the pliers I squeeze hard squeeze its jaws And my jaw Clenches unwilled: brain helplessly implicated In plaited Filaments of muscle and nerve. In the enveloping Grip of its evolution Chambered in the skull it cannot tell the tool From the toiler Primate who plies it. Purposeless despair Spirits The ape to its grapples restless to devise. In the vise- Grip Discontent the grer"s bent. William Wordsworth (April 7 1770 – April 23 1850) was a major English romantic poet who with Samuel Taylor Coleridge helped launch the Romantic Age in English literature with their 1798 joint publication Lyrical Ballads. Wordsworth"s masterpiece is generally considered to be The Prelude an autobiographical poem of his early years that was revised and expanded a number of times. It was never published during his lifetime and was only given the title after his death. Up until this time it was generally known as the poem "to Coleridge". Wordsworth was England"s Poet Laureate from 1843 until his death in 1850. 详细生平资料可于en. *** /wiki/William_Wordsworth 查看。 著名诗作:I wandered lonely as a cloud 此诗描绘四处漫游的孤寂灵魂在湖畔和树下惊见生机盎然、随风摇曳的金色水仙，重拾对生命的热情与希望。 I Wandered lonely as a cloud That floats on high o"er vales and hills When all at once I saw a crowd A host of golden daffodils; Beside the lake beneath the trees Fluttering and dancing in the breeze. Continuous as the stars that shine And inkle on the milky way They stretched in never-ending line Along the margin of a bay: Ten thousand saw I at a glance Tossing their heads in sprightly dance. The waves beside them danced; but they Out-did the sparkling waves in glee: A poet could not but be gay In such a jocund pany: I gazed--and gazed--but little thought What wealth the show to me had brought: For oft when on my couch I lie In vacant or in pensive mood They flash upon that inward eye Which is the bliss of solitude; And then my heart with pleasure fills And dances with the daffodils 呢首诗仲改成CHOIR的歌 最近仲出埋RAP版!. 我都唱过呢首歌的CHOIR版 觉得呢首诗真系好优美^^ 希望帮到你啦!!! 参考: en. *** /wiki/I_Wandered_Lonely_as_a_Cloud

这个字不只在饶舌歌中出现，在全美，此字已成为生活用字，被广泛使用。Fuck一字如世人所知的，它有「与人性交」的用法，当然也是一个非常鄙俗的用字，常用来怒骂对方的行为或为人，且Fuck一字也可代表任何物，任何动物，也可当成加强用语使用，只要可以骂人，都合Fuck的文法。而且Fuck也自成一套，形成了一堆词组，介绍如下：最常见的词组即是I don"t give a fuck，表示I don"t care之意；fuck about/around则表示不信任某人或某事；fuck off同get out滚蛋之意；至于Don"t fuck sb up，则是Let me alone，别烦我的意思；而fuck sth up则有把事搞砸之意。当然，如前所述，Fuck此字可以代替任何动词、名词，只要对方听得懂即可。而Fuck有一用法则同于究竟（on earth）或是咒骂人的词组（the hell），即「the fuck」，为强调之用法，如What the fuck you gonna do?或How the Fuck sho" I fly?有时可和shit一字通用，但少用为妙说法一 　　15世纪时有一首诗“跳蚤和苍蝇”，此诗由拉丁语和英语混合写成，讽刺了英国剑桥的卡尔梅修道士，其诗名取自第一句“Flen，flyys，and freris”即，“跳蚤，苍蝇和修道士。”有fuck一词的一行是“Non sunt in coeli, quia gxddbov xxkxzt pg ifmk.”其中的拉丁文“Non sunt in coeli，quia”意为“他们（指修道士们）不在天堂，因为”后面的“gxddbov xxkxzt pg ifmk”显然是隐语，不过只要透过字母重映射的方法即可破译，其规则为向前回推一个字母（需注意当时的字母没有J、U和W）： 　　gxddbov xxkxzt pg ifmk. ↓ fvccant vvivys of heli. 如此一来全句变为“Non sunt in coeli, quia fvccant vvivys of heli.”意思是“他们不在天堂，因为他们与伊利的妇女‘性交"。”句中的“fvccant”即为故意将“fuck”伪装成拉丁文形式，即“fvcco”的现在式第三人称复数。 说法二 　　一本于1598年出版的字典则认为Fuck这个字源自拉丁文的fūtuere或古德语的ficken，原意是"to strike"（可作攻击、袭击、压铸等不同意思）或"to penetrate"（穿透），但在俗语（slang）却可用来暗示性交（to copulate）。著名的语源学家Eric Partridge亦指出这个德语字源自拉丁文，意思就是"pugilist, puncture, and prick"，就是刺穿的意思。耐人寻味的是：到了今时今日，"prick"这个英文字除了解作刺穿以外，在现代口语中更常用来指男性的阴茎。 　　通俗一点说就是“cao”。 　　通俗语源 　　在古时的英国，一般人不能随意做爱。除非他们是皇家贵族，不然一定要有国王的允许。所以当人们想要生小孩时，他们就会去跟国王申请允许，国王就会给他们一个牌子挂在门上，代表他们可以做爱。而该牌子上则是写着“Fornication Under Consent of the King”（在国王的允许下做爱）。

楼主你好，圣经加拉太书5章经文如此说：5:19 情欲的事，都是显而易见的。就如奸淫，污秽，邪荡，Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, 5:20 拜偶像，邪术，仇恨，争竞，忌恨，恼怒，结党，纷争，异端，Idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, 5:21 嫉妒，（有古卷在此有凶杀二字）醉酒，荒宴等类，我从前告诉你们，现在又告诉你们，行这样事的人，必不能承受神的国。Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God. 5:22 圣灵所结的果子，就是仁爱，喜乐，和平，忍耐，恩慈，良善，信实，But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, 5:23 温柔，节制。这样的事，没有律法禁止。Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law. 5:24 凡属基督耶稣的人，是已经把肉体，连肉体的邪情私欲，同钉在十字架上了。And they that are Christ"s have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts. 所以，圣灵和圣灵的果效是很明确的，邪灵和邪情私欲也是区别于此的。另外，多读圣经，多亲近神，自然就能体贴圣灵和父神的心意，不用在网上问也能知道这些问题的答案。

在古时的 英国 ，一般人不能随意 做爱 。除非他们是 皇家贵族 ，不然一定要有国王的允许。 所以当人们想要 生小孩 时，他们就会去跟国王申请允许，国王就会给他们一个牌子挂在门上，代表他们可以做爱。在牌子上写着 Fornication Under Consent of the King（在国王的允许下做爱）所以你应该知道 FUCK 开头这个字的由来了吧？

如果推文有分级制，按照类似电影分级的标准。肉叔的这篇稿应该分在第三级。也就是三级稿，专供已满18周岁的成人。别误会。不是因为肉叔要ghs、反人类，或者里面有大量血腥暴力图片。而是因为另一个元素。粗略看看美国电影R级电影的分级标准：影片中有清楚的性爱场面，大量的吸毒或暴力镜头以及脏话等。对了，脏话。没想到吧。未成年人谨慎观看！这纪录片尺度也太大了电影里出现一句“fuck”（草）就会被列为R级电影。比如小李子的《华尔街之狼》，就是因为fuck太多定在了R级。（按照这个标准，《让子弹飞》是一部彻头彻尾的成人电影，这TM才是惊喜）今天咱们就聊聊脏话。《脏话面面观》History of Swear Words未成年人谨慎观看！这纪录片尺度也太大了人的一生中总会有这么一个时刻——不说一句脏话，就不足以表达自我。高兴了，说一个我草。难过了，骂一句TMD。伤心了，嘟囔一声狗x的。要是五味杂陈，心里百般滋味无法一一道出，最好的表达方式是什么？当然是吼一句，WCNMLGB。实在不行，就两句。淦！别跟我说你一辈子从来不说脏话。所以，问题来了。为什么人们喜欢说脏话？那些词是怎么变成脏话的？就好像几年前肉叔对人说，我去年买了个表，他以为我在炫耀我的劳力士；现在我再这么说，他能一巴掌呼过来。未成年人谨慎观看！这纪录片尺度也太大了还有，当我们在说脏话时，我们到底在说什么？网飞的这部《脏话面面观》就是这样一部极具社会价值和人文价值的科普片。（误）现在，让我们一探脏话史。好，我们先说脏话史上最古老，最有生命力，最具威力的词——Fuck。从词义和演变历史来说，“草”这个词是最能和“fuck”对应的。纯洁一点，从它们的原始词义来说，都是表动作的词，即用某种物体插入另一种物体。于是，人们很容易把它们和性行为联系在一起。（纯洁一点，我们在做学术研究）未成年人谨慎观看！这纪录片尺度也太大了但是，为什么它就变成了一个骂人的词？那么多和性行为有关的词。比如，做（），（）交。（运用你们的小脑瓜，来个完形填空）。怎么做和交就没变成脏话。让我们穿过历史的重重迷雾，解开草的面纱，还原一个真实的fuck。人们这么相信。FUCK源自一个词句：Fornication Under Consent of the King。翻译翻译，在国王的允许下行房。未成年人谨慎观看！这纪录片尺度也太大了这里有个小故事。在中古世纪，人们结婚后，必须去觐见国王。为啥呢？讨一个证——允许行房证。未成年人谨慎观看！这纪录片尺度也太大了国王答应了，给你们颁个证。好，你们回家可以尽情地深入交流，达到生命的大和谐。如果没有这个证，那你们的性交行为就是玷污国王尊严，无视法律的大逆不道行为，被抓住是要切JJ的。（后面一句是我乱加的）未成年人谨慎观看！这纪录片尺度也太大了故事，虽然很有戏剧性。但，完全是瞎编。就像人们习惯为大人物编一个牛逼的出身，比如《史记》说刘邦是赤帝的儿子，他老妈在水塘堤坝上打盹时，一条龙趴在她身上，这才怀了孕。瞎JB扯。而FUCK真正的来源，很可能源于荷兰语的一个词，表示“吹、打、痛击”的意思。就跟孙耀威发微博说“今天被他操得快休克了”其实意思是，健身教练操练死我了。未成年人谨慎观看！这纪录片尺度也太大了△ 我们有理由相信，他旁边的男子能够做到1500年以前，人们还很少用这个词。还有些人会用这个词来取名字。比如，Jack·Slowfuck，意思是杰克·慢点草，不对，是捷克·斯洛伐克。（开玩笑的）真正用来取的名字是这些，John·Lefucker（约翰·莱法克）、Fuck·Butter（法克·巴特尔）。未成年人谨慎观看！这纪录片尺度也太大了像曹操，琴操一样，多说一句，百家姓里有“操”这个姓。但是，毕竟这个词还是有一层“插入”的意思，这就不得不让联想能力丰富的人，把它和性行为联系在一起。大概到14世纪时，它和性行为有了历史性地交汇，从那一刻起，这个词的含义变了。未成年人谨慎观看！这纪录片尺度也太大了一旦和性这种极度私密的行为联系在一起，这个词也变得私密起来。而全世界古板的道德卫士都把性看成洪水猛兽，是一种肮脏的，不能公开讨论的行为。于是，这个词就变成了禁忌。Fuck，也就变成了脏话。未成年人谨慎观看！这纪录片尺度也太大了《脏话面面观》，从各个方面研究一个脏词。“烂片王”尼古拉斯·凯奇和我们做坐而论道，把一个脏话的起源、发展、运用以及在这背后的社会现实娓娓道来。顺便发泄自己现在只能拍烂片的窘境，把每一句脏话都说得无比深情，堪比电影台词。你以为是恶搞故事片，其实是正儿八经的科普片。脏话，低俗，但我们摆脱不了。无论哪种语言，脏话是最好学的。因为它是人类用以表达情感最原始的语言，它深藏于我们每个人的脑中。未成年人谨慎观看！这纪录片尺度也太大了有依据。来个小故事。19世纪，一个叫盖奇的铁路工人发生了一场意外。那时，他正在佛蒙特州卡文迪许建造铁路。每天凿洞，往里填火药，引爆。有一天，他忘记把塞满炸药的洞口埋好，意外点燃炸药。爆炸威力将一支约1米长的铁撬炸飞，铁撬穿过他的脑袋，还把一个眼珠挤了出来。未成年人谨慎观看！这纪录片尺度也太大了意外的是，受这么重的伤，这人愣是没死。还能说话。但是，认识他的人都说，自从那场意外后，他就像变了个人。他易怒易燥，尽管失去了大部分语言能力，但每天脏话不离嘴，说得倍棒。因此，他再也找不到工作了。未成年人谨慎观看！这纪录片尺度也太大了科学家们发现，铁撬损伤了他的大脑，负责沟通和策划的部分。这些都是大脑抑制冲动的部分。所以，人们暴怒时，狂喜时，焦躁时最容易说脏话。未成年人谨慎观看！这纪录片尺度也太大了这说明什么？说明喜欢说脏话的人找不到工作。草，不对。这说明脏话才是咱们本能里最想说，最能说的话，平时有大脑管着，我们不说。一旦大脑罢工——TMD，它怎么能罢工。未成年人谨慎观看！这纪录片尺度也太大了科学家的研究表明：人们在无意识中说出脏话，这是一种进化过的原始反射行为。脏话来自大脑中更深层次、更饱含情感并具有进化能力的固有区块。（也就是还没完全进化好）这个区块猩猩有，猫狗有，就连蜥蜴也有。未成年人谨慎观看！这纪录片尺度也太大了所以当你撸猫时，你的猫发出喵喵喵的叫声，那是真的在骂你。（死变态）当你遇到那些出口成脏的人时，不要回怼，不要鄙视。你要用满怀爱意的眼神看着他——哦，又一个脑子没进化好的人，在这文明的世界他是多么孤独啊。生理作用确实在影响着人们的用词。但，语言对人同样有塑形作用，那是在心理上。语言是一种权力。是所谓话语权。你说什么话，为什么这么说话，都在潜移默化地影响你的思想，进而影响整个社会。说脏话，同样如此。比如，pussy（娘 炮）这个词。当你用这个词骂一个人时，有没有想想它背后的含义？这个词只有骂男人时才有效。你说一个女人娘，不是她有问题，而是你有问题。再细想想，为什么说一个男人娘 炮是骂人的话。用这个词形容一个男人像女人，说他软弱。未成年人谨慎观看！这纪录片尺度也太大了等等。这里有两层含义。第一，男人像女人不好。第二，娘=软弱。即，男人不想被别人形容自己像个女人一样软弱。这是默认了，女性=弱者。未成年人谨慎观看！这纪录片尺度也太大了这个词能够成为骂人的脏话，这背后是什么？男权社会长期以来否定女性价值的社会环境。只有在这样的环境，男人像女人才是一个冒犯到别人，否定别人的脏话。千万不要和用这次词骂人的人做朋友。因为当TA使用这个词骂人时，TA是先骂了女人，再达到骂男人的目的。不过，也许TA只是大脑还没进化好，完全不明白其中的道理。但是和脑 残做朋友也不是一件好事啊。当我们在说脏话时，除了宣泄自己最饱满的情绪，还在无形中使用人类社会浓缩千年的语言精华，重塑这个世界。但是，请不要误会。肉叔并不是在提倡大家说脏话，而是想提醒大家一句。说话要慎重。即使是骂一句脏话，也包含着语言的力量。未成年人谨慎观看！这纪录片尺度也太大了编辑：熊猫

英语笑话:F.U.C.K.Joke:F.U.C.K.In ancient England people could not have sex unless they had consent of the king (unless they were in the Royal Family ). When people wanted to have a baby, they had to get the consent of the king, and the king gave them a placard that they hung on their door > while they were having sex. The placard hadF.U.C.K.(Fornication Under Consent of the King) on it. Hence that"s where the word Fuck came from.英文笑话:AlligatorJoke:AlligatorA guy walks into a bar with a pet alligator by his side. He puts the alligator up on the bar. He turns to the astonished patrons."I"ll make you a deal. I will open this alligator"s mouth and place my genitals inside. Then the gator will close his mouth for one minute. He will then open his mouth and I willremove my unit unscathed. In return for witnessing this spectacle, each of you will buy me a drink."The crowd murmured their approval. The man stood up on the bar, dropped his trousers, and placed his privates in the alligator"s open mouth. The gator closed his mouth as the crowd gasped. After a minute, the man grabbed a beer bottle and rapped the alligator hard on the top of its head. The gator opened his mouth and the man removed his genitals unscathed as promised. The crowd cheered and the first of his free drinks was delivered. The man stood up again and made another offer."I"ll pay anyone $100 who"s willing to give it a try".A hush fell over the crowd. After a while, a hand went up in the back of the bar. A woman timidly spoke up. "I"ll try, but you have to promise not to hit me on the head with the beer bottle".英语笑话:The ShredderJoke:The ShredderA young executive was leaving the office at 6 p.m. when he found the CEO standing in front of a shredder with a piece of paper in his hand."Listen," said the CEO, "this is a very sensitive and important document and my secretary has left. Can you make this thing work?""Certainly," said the young executive. He turned the machine on, inserted the paper and pressed the start button."Excellent, excellent," said the CEO as his paper disappeared inside the machine. "I just need one copy."英文笑话:Misc Jokes .Joke:Misc Jokes .A motorist was unknowingly caught in an automated speed trap that measured his speed using radar and photographed his car. He later received in the mail a ticket for $40 and a photo of his car.Instead of payment, he sent the police department a photograph of $40.Several days later, he received a letter from the police that contained another picture... of handcuffs. The motorist promptly sent the money for the fine .A woman was reporting her car as stolen, and mentioned that there was a car phone in it. The policeman taking the report called the phone and told the guy that answered that he had read the ad in the newspaper and wanted to buy the car. They arranged to meet, and the thief was arrested.Drug Possession Defendant Christopher Jansen, on trial in March in Pontiac, Michigan, said he had been searched without a warrant. The prosecutor said the officer didn"t need a warrant because a "bulge" in Christopher"s jacket could have been a gun. Nonsense, said Christopher, who happened to be wearing the same jacket that day in court. He handed it over so the judge could see it. The judge discovered a packet of cocaine in the pocket and laughed so hard he required a five minute recess to compose himself.Oklahoma City:Dennis Newton was on trial for the armed robbery of a convenience store in a district court when he fired his lawyer. Assistant district attorney Larry Jones said Newton, 47, was doing a fair job of defending himself until the store manager testified that Newton was the robber. Newton jumped up, accused the woman of lying and then said, "I should of blown your (expletive) head off." The defendant paused, then quickly added, "if I"d been the one that was there."The jury took 20 minutes to convict Newton and recommended a 30 year sentence.Detroit:R.C. Gaitlan, 21 walked up to two patrol officers who were showing their squad car computer equipment to children in a Detroit neighborhood. When he asked how the system worked, the officer asked him for identification. Gaitlan gave them his drivers license, they entered it into the computer, and moments later they arrested Gaitlan because information on the screen showed Gaitlan was wanted for a two year old armed robbery in St. Louis, Missouri.Colorado Springs:Guy walked into a little corner store with a shot gun and demanded all the cash from the cash drawer. After the cashier put the cash in a bag, the robber saw a bottle of scotch that he wanted behind the counter on the shelf. He told the cashier to put it in the bag as well, but he refused and said "Because I don"t believe you are over 21." The robber said he was, but the clerk still refused to give it to him because he didn"t believe him. At this point the robber took his drivers license out of his wallet and gave it to the clerk. The clerk looked it over, and agreed that the man was in fact over 21 and he put the scotch in the bag. The robber then ran from the store with his loot. The cashier promptly called the police and gave the name and address of the robber that he got off the license. They arrested the robber two hours later.

本文介绍的语言,在英语是属于淫秽的语言（obscene language）,也可以说是脏话（dirty words）.往往是不便说出口的话,因而能说是隐语（shadowlanguage）,也可以说是“成为禁忌的语言”（tabooed words）.其中,尤其不便说出口的话有 *** （ *** ,干）,因为刚好是四个字母,所以禁忌语也可以说成four-letter word（四字经）.此外,shit（大便）是四字,cock（ *** ）也是四字,所以four-letter word有“不便开口的话”之意.所谓禁忌语并不是现代才有,受迷信或传统支配的古代或原始民族更多,这是在某种环境或状况下,不便说出口的话.这也不限于淫秽的话,也有正相反的情形.例如在缅甸或朝鲜、大溪地等国家,国王或皇帝的名字是至高无上,不可以随便说出口的,日本到今天还是如此,外国的报纸会不客气地说Emperor Hirohito（裕仁天皇）或Prince Akihito（明仁皇太子）,但在日本的报纸上却不能写出名字.并不限于未开发的国家才有禁忌语,例如英国对有关宗教的语言God（神）、devil （魔鬼）、Christ（耶稣）等－是除了认真谈话时以外,不可以随便说出口的.如在开玩笑或轻松的谈话时说：Jesus Christ（耶稣基督）,一定会被认为你是不懂礼貌的人.在骂“你是个畜生!”或“可恶的东西!”时,英国人会使用有关神的话. 　　For Christ"s sake!（为了基督!） 　　God damned!（神啊,受诅咒吧!） 　　Hell!（可恶的地狱!） 　　Oh,damn it!（诅咒它吧!） 　　这些话比我们骂“你这畜生!”更为严重,因为这不仅是“骂人”,也是对神的冒犯.就广义而言,slang（俚语）也可以列入禁忌语,但有许多话除了高尚 *** 或正式场合以外是可以说出口的.俚语（slang）是最能生动表现出时代时代心声的语言,即便是有高深学问的人,在使用俚语能使谈话更有效时,往往也会使用.不过在俚语中,属于cant或jargon的话只有在特殊的团体－如学生之间或黑社会－之间才能理解,一般是很少使用.侮辱性地描述一个民族或国民,或阶级的俚语也是禁忌.例如黑人会带着怨恨称白人是snake（蛇）,而白人则轻蔑黑人为nigger而不是称Negro.这些话在相同的种族间也是禁忌,更遑论向黑人或白人这样说,无疑是不要命的行为了.此外,关于性行为与排泄的slang是tabooed.而本书就是试图要对这两种tabooed words做详尽的介绍.虽然是禁忌语,但因为能表达丰富的意思,又颇有生动的气氛,还是常会使用到,而且这些话“强有力的影响我们的思想”.美国的著名诗人渥尔特·惠特曼是这样说的：“应该多收集slang,不论是好的还是坏的.而坏的slang往往更美妙.” 　　字典英语与生活英语之差异,凡是努力学过英语的人都有一个共同的缺点,那就是不会区别文章与口语.美国人批评我们的英语是：classroom English（教室英语）exaggerated English（夸张的英语）.而我们却不了解他们为什么会这样说.虽然英美人士告诉我们说他们在日常生活里不使用big words（难字）,但很难判断究竟哪些是big words.一般而言,为表示同样的意思本来有很短的字,但我们喜欢用较长的字,所以批评说“用太多的big words”或“夸张的英语”.That"s a tough question. 　　这样的一句话,我们往往会说称That"s a difficult question.一般认为出自盎格鲁撒克逊族的英语是大众化,而以拉丁语为源流的英语是 big words,至于性行为或排泄用语也是相同的情形.我们对这方面的英语亦是如此,对“艰难学术用语”熟知能详,而一般英美大众使用的,或在小说中出现的简单形容却不了解.例如, *** penis或 *** vagina是属于拉丁语系的“有教养的英语”,有关这些字我们都知道.可是关于 *** 使用cock或dick 等字,在小说中更常使用,而且,有不知道vagina的英美人,而不知道cunt、pussy或crack意思的英美人则无.当然,在字典上也许能查到 penis或vagina,只是往往没有代表这种意思的slang.一想到后者的使用更为“活生生”,并且在英美的使用度极为频繁时,不能不对我们字典编汇的方式产生怀疑.以下首先介绍我们字典上的“艰难高级字”. penis（ *** ） testicles（睾丸） semen（ *** ） erection（勃起） ejaculation（ *** ） scrotum（阴囊） vagina（ *** ） urethra（尿道） copulation（ *** ） cohabitation（同居） fornication（通奸、婚外 *** ） urination（排尿） defecation（排便）

歌曲名:I Lost Everything Today歌手:RA专辑:DualityI Lost Everything Today Lyricsby kakafifiI"m running out of excuses nowI try to hide from what you"re givingCold advice never seems to endTraining days that I was livingMagic makes for a boring lieGolden shit and a red bowtieBleeding hearts disregard the sunAnd what"s begun I don"t know whyI lost everything todayI got beaten so I ran awayI lost everything todayI can"t find my way to yesterdayGraveyard shifts to sleepless nightsComatose but I"m still kickinHungry headed data pigGod"s remorse the paces quickenFundamental decadenceSimplified the masses wonderFaulty streams of consciousnessThe sea of crap that we live underI lost everything todayOut of time and it is not worth tryingI lost everything todayLost it all and I just feel like dyingSimplistic monolithic hyperactive Neolithiccondescending neverending disregarded fantasy...creative systematic temperamental horizontaldisassemble instrumental polyester family...divided Aramaic humanistic esoteric superfragileundermining comprehension sanity...fundamental urination sanitation fornicationvindicated medicated unrelated can"t you seeI lost everything todayI got beaten so I ran awayI lost everything todayI can"t find my way to yesterdayI lost everything todayOut of time and it is not worth tryingI lost everything todayLost it all and I just feel like dyinghttp://music.baidu.com/song/9661458

歌曲名:Authority Song歌手:Reel Big Fish专辑:Fame, Fortune And FornicationReel Big Fish - Authority SongThey like to get you in a compromising positionThey like to get you there and smile in your faceThey think, it"s so cute when they got you in that conditionWell, I think that it is a total disgraceAnd I say when I fight authority, authority always winsWhen I fight authority, authority always winsI been doing it, since I was a young kid and I"ve come out grinnin"When I fight authority, authority always winsWell, I call up my preacher and I say, "Gimme strength for round five"He said, "You don"t need strength, you need to grow up, son"I said, "Growing up leads to growing old and then to dyingAnd dying to me don"t sound like all that much fun"And I say, when I fight authority, authority always winsWhen I fight authority, authority always winsI been doing it, since I was a young kid and I"ve come out grinnin"When I fight authority, authority always winsI said, oh, no, oh, no, oh, noI fought the law and the law wonI fought the law and the law wonI fought the law and the law wonI fought the law and the law wonWhen I fight authority, authority always winsWhen I fight authority, authority always winsWell, I been doing it, since I was a young kid and I"ve come out grinnin"When I fight authority, authority always winsAnd I say, when I fight authority, authority always winsWhen I fight authority, authority always winsI been doing it, since I was a young kid and I"ve come out grinnin"When I fight authority, authority always winshttp://music.baidu.com/song/21369495

歌曲名:Monkey Man歌手:Reel Big Fish专辑:Fame, Fortune And FornicationReel Big Fish - Monkey ManAye aye aye, aye aye ayeTalking about the big monkey manAye aye aye, aye aye ayeTalking about the big monkey manI never saw you, I only heard of youTalking about the big monkey manI never saw you, I only heard of youTalking about the big monkey manIt"s alright, it"s alrightTalking about the big monkey manIt"s alright, it"s alrightTalking about the big monkey manNow I know that, now I understandYou"re turning the monkey on meNow I know that, now I understandYou"re turning the monkey on meAye aye aye, aye aye ayeTalking about the big monkey manAye aye aye, aye aye ayeTalking about the big monkey man"Cause he"s a monkey, he"s a monkey manReally, really, really, really monkey man"Cause he"s a monkey, he"s a monkey manReally, really, really, really monkey manAye aye aye, aye aye ayeTalking about the big monkey manAye aye aye, aye aye ayeTalking about the big monkey manhttp://music.baidu.com/song/21366590

歌曲名:Veronica Sawyer歌手:Reel Big Fish专辑:Fame, Fortune And FornicationReel Big Fish - Veronica SawyerLooking out my windowNothing to do but to drive in circlesWell, I don"t want to have to go home tonightUp and down the boulevardHow did I survive in suburbiaWhen there"s nothing to doAnd they take away what I love to do the most, yeahFriday night, you"re not gonna get itSaturday, you try to give me one moreSunday morning, just waiting for theafternoon so I can be a kid againI head back to my backyardI know life"s rough but sometimes it"s really hardTo do what I love to do the most, yeahNow I"m stuck, I"m back in the loop againI"m not gonna lose and I know I"m never gonna winSometimes life is just that wayWe all sayFriday night, you"re not gonna get itSaturday, you try to give me one moreSunday morning, just waiting for theafternoon so I can be a kid againFriday night, you"re not gonna get itSaturday, you try to give me one moreSunday morning, just waiting for theafternoon so I can be a kid againAnd now the weekend comes and I try to get insideBut the guy at the door tells me that I"m deniedFriday night, you"re not gonna get itSaturday, you try to give me one moreSunday morning, just waiting for theafternoon so I can be a kid againFriday night, you"re not gonna get itSaturday, you try to give me one moreSunday morning, just waiting for theafternoon so I can be a kid againFriday nightSaturdaySunday morning, just waiting for theafternoon so I can be a kid againFriday night, you"re not gonna get itSaturday, you try to give me one moreSunday morning, just waiting for theafternoon so I can be a kid againYou try to give me one moreYou try to give me one moreFriday night, you"re not gonna get itSaturday, you try to give me one moreSunday morning, just waiting for theafternoon so I can be a kid againhttp://music.baidu.com/song/21367999

歌曲名:Talk Dirty To Me歌手:Reel Big Fish专辑:Fame, Fortune And FornicationReel Big Fish - Talk Dirty To MeYou know I never, I"ve never seen you look so goodYou never act the way you should but I like itAnd I know you like it too the way that I want youI"ve gotta have you, oh yes I doI never, I never ever stay out lateBut you know that I can hardly wait just to see youAnd I know you cannot wait, wait to see me tooI"ve gotta touch you"Cause baby we"ll be at the drive-in in the old man"s FordBehind the bushes until I"m screamin" for moreDown in the basement we"ll lock the cellar doorAnd baby talk dirty to meYou know I call you, I call you on the telephoneI"m only hoping that you"re home so I can hear youWhen you say those words to me and whisper so softlyI gotta hear you"Cause baby we"ll be at the drive-in in the old man"s FordBehind the bushes until I"m screamin" for moreWay down in the basement we"ll lock the cellar doorAnd baby talk dirty to meSo pick up that guitar and talk to me"Cause baby we"ll be at the drive-in in the old man"s FordBehind them bushes till I"m screamin" for more, more, moreWay down in the basement we"ll lock the cellar doorAnd baby talk dirty to me, yeahAnd baby talk dirty to me, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeahAnd baby talk dirty to me, yeah, yeahhttp://music.baidu.com/song/21371367

您好！传说是这样的：在古时的英国，一般人不能随意做爱。 除非他们是皇家贵族，不然一定要有国王的允许。 所以当人们想要生小孩时，他们就会去跟国王申请允许， 国王就会给他们一个牌子挂在门上，代表他们可以做爱。 在牌子上写着Fornication Under Consent of the King （在国王的允许下做爱） 。还存在其他版本。但是这个无法考究，可能是英语国家的人在make love的时候男人常发出类似fuck的声音，逐渐演变成一个词语fuck。希望对您有所帮助！

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Sex, Love and Character: A Message to Young Peopleby Thomas Lickona, Ph.D.Chastity is the strength that helps us use our sexuality according to God"s plan.The New Corinthians Curriculum As a psychologist specializing in character development, I am often asked to speak to young people about sex. I usually begin by saying: "All of you belong to one of four groups: (1) You have never had sexual intercourse, and you do not intend to do so until you get married; (2) You haven"t had a sexual relationship, but you"re not sure what you think about sex before marriage; (3) You"ve had a premarital sexual relationship, and you don"t see anything wrong with it; (4) You"ve had a premarital sexual relationship, but you now consider it a mistake—or you"re not sure what you want to do in the future. Whichever group you belong to, I"d like to offer you a way of thinking about sex—a way I believe will help you make good sexual decisions, ones that will help you build a good character and lead a good and happy life."I then address a number of questions that young people often have about sex. Isn"t Everybody Doing It?In fact, about half of high-school-age teens are virgins. Furthermore, the 1995 National Survey of Family Growth found a drop in adolescent sexual activity for both males and females, ages 15 to 19, for the first time since the survey began in 1970. Fifty percent of the girls in this age group now report that they are virgins; so do 45% of the boys. According to a number of studies, students who get good grades, who have goals for the future, who abstain from drugs and alcohol, and who often attend religious services are all significantly less likely to have had sex than students who do not possess these qualities. So if you"re a virgin, you"re in good company. Isn"t Sex a Way to Express Love?The way to answer this question is to ask: What does it mean to "love" another person? Love means wanting what is best for the other person, seeking the greatest good for that person. How do you know when somebody really loves you? When he or she wants what is truly best for your welfare, your happiness—now and in the future. Measured against this standard, is having sex without being married truly an act of love? Think about the harmful consequences that can come from sex between unmarried persons. Consider these lines from the pamphlet "Love Waits": Love is patient, love is kind. Love wants what is best for another person. Love never demands something that will harm you or the person you love. Love will never cross the line between what"s right and wrong. It"s wrong to put one another in danger of having to deal with hard choices. u2026 choices that could change your lives, your goals, and your plans forever. Having sex before marriage may feel right for the moment. But the possible costs of an unexpected pregnancy, abortion, and sexually transmitted disease—as well as the deep hurts that can come from a broken relationship—outweigh the feelings of the moment. The feelings are temporary; their consequences are long-lasting. All good things are worth waiting for. Waiting until marriage to have sex is a mature decision to control your desires. If you are getting to know someone—or are in a relationship—remember: If it"s love, love waits.What if You Use "Protection"? There are two ways to respond to this question. One is to explain why contraception goes against God"s plan for sex, even in marriage. God designs sex for two purposes: to be love-giving and life-giving. Sex is for deepening love between a husband and wife and for the procreation of children. God intended for these two purposes to be inseparable. That"s why He places sex within marriage; it"s the only relationship where a man and woman can give themselves to each other totally and can responsibly conceive and raise a child. This is an awesome and sacred privilege—being able to cooperate with God in the creation of his own children, whom he desires to live eternally in his company. Contraception is contrary to God"s plan because it artificially separates sexual love from its God-given power to create new life. By contrast, Natural Family Planning (NFP) involves abstaining from sex during the few days each month when a woman can get pregnant. NFP is not only highly effective (98%) but it"s "all-natural sex"; it doesn"t place artificial barriers (devices or drugs) between a husband and wife, or between their lovemaking and God"s will. There"s a second way to respond to the question about "protection," and that"s to ask: Does contraception really make unmarried sex "safe," as is so commonly claimed? No matter what type of contraception is used, a girl can still get pregnant. It happens—and then there is a developing life to deal with. Among adult users, according to studies published in Family Planning Perspectives, condoms have an average annual failure rate of 15% in preventing pregnancy. What about AIDS? Dr. Susan Weller at the University of Texas Medical Branch at Galveston, in an analysis of 11 different studies, found that condoms on the average failed 31% of the time to prevent transmission of AIDS virus (Social Science and Medicine, June 1993). Medical studies show that condoms provide even less protection ("zero" to "some") against what are now the three most common STDs. Human papilloma virus (HPV), which is the cause of virtually all cervical cancer, can infect anywhere in the male or female genital region and may be spread by skin-to-skin contact during sex. Chlamydia which, undetected, can lead to pelvic inflammatory disease and scarring of the fallopian tubes, is the fastest growing cause of infertility and may be transmitted by skin contact outside the area covered by the condom. Herpes, which causes genital sores, cannot be cured, and, like HPV and chlamydia, can be transmitted by skin-to-skin contact in the entire genital area. No Condom for the HeartWhat about the mental, emotional, and spiritual consequences of temporary sexual relationships? Sex involves our full person, our whole self. There is no condom for the heart, mind, or soul. Here is a teenage girl speaking of her experience: I am 16 and have already lost my virginity. I truly regret that my first time was with a guy that I didn"t care that much about. Since that first night, he expects sex on every date. When I don"t feel like it, we end up in an argument. I don"t think this guy is in love with me, and I know deep down that I am not in love with him either. This makes me feel cheap. I realize now that this is a very big step in a girl"s life. After you"ve done it, things are never the same. It changes everything. My advice is, don"t be in such a rush. It"s a headache and a worry. Sex is not for entertainment. It should be a commitment. Be smart and save yourself for someone you wouldn"t mind spending the rest of your life with. The psychological and spiritual repercussions of sex outside marriage are many and varied. They include: (1) Regret and self-recrimination; (2) worry about becoming pregnant or getting an STD; (3) the emotional turmoil associated with an unexpected pregnancy, the stress of premature parenthood or the self-sacrifice of adoption, or the trauma and aftermath of abortion; (4) guilt; (5) feelings of being used; (5) self-contempt for being a user; (6) the lowered self-esteem that accompanies finding out you have a sexually transmitted disease; (7) fear of commitment because of having been burned; (8) rage over betrayal, sometimes leading to violence; (9) depression, sometimes leading to suicide; (10) ruined relationships (because sex often comes to dominate a relationship); (11) stunted personal growth (because premature sex can hinder your identity development); (12) the marital stress that comes from infertility caused by an STD; and (13) the separation from God that serious sin, until repented, always causes. You don"t see these consequences of sex outside marriage depicted on TV or in the movies. You don"t read about them in Seventeen or Sassy. But they are very real. Over the years, I have collected the personal stories of people who have experienced these unhappy consequences. A college guy says, "I finally got a girl into bed when I was 17. Then she started saying she loved me and getting clingy. After four weeks of having sex as often as I wanted, I was tired of her and dumped her. That made me feel pretty low, because I could see that she was hurting." Another college male talks about his loss of self-control: "I had always heard that having sex was a way to get rid of sexual tension, but having sex just increased my desire. It was like a drug. I couldn"t stop myself, yet at the same time, I wasn"t satisfied at all." A 33-year-old wife says, "Sometime during my wild college days, I picked up an infection that damaged the inside of my fallopian tubes and left me infertile. I am now married to a wonderful man who very much wants children, and the guilt I feel is overwhelming. We will look into adoption, but this whole ordeal has been terribly difficult." In short, contraceptive devices don"t make sex physically safe (you can still get pregnant or sick), emotionally safe (you can still get hurt), or ethically loving (you can"t claim to love someone if you"re gambling with that person"s health, life, and future happiness). What if You are Engaged?What if you"re planning to get married—isn"t sex okay then? One way to answer this question is to ask: What is the intrinsic meaning of sexual intercourse? When you have sexual intercourse with someone, you are being as physically intimate as it is possible to be with another human being. When you"re married, this kind of intimacy is part of a total commitment. You join your bodies because you"ve joined your lives. The ultimate intimacy belongs within the ultimate commitment. Pope John Paul II points out that bodily actions, just like words, have meanings. In body language, sex says to the other person, "I give myself to you completely." Within the marriage commitment, that"s really true. However, sex before marriage is like saying, "I give myself to you completely, but not really." It"s a form of lying with your body. You aren"t completely committed yet. About half the people who get married have been engaged at least once before. Premarital sex can also fool you into marrying the wrong person. Seven different studies, cited in David Myers" book The Pursuit of Happiness, find that couples who lived together before their marriage are significantly more likely to divorce than couples who did not live together. For example, a Canadian study of more than 5,000 women found that those who lived together with their future spouses were 54% more likely to divorce. How Far is Too Far?A high school counselor offers this wise advice: "If you don"t want to drive over a cliff, don"t pull up to the edge and race the engine." George Eager, in his book Love, Dating and Sex (1989), says you"re going too far when: either a guy"s or a girl"s hands start roaming either of you starts to remove clothing you are doing something you would not want to be doing around someone you really respect you are arousing genital feelings you are arousing feelings that reduce your ability to make and carry out an intelligent decision. Saving sex for marriage, as chastity educator Mary Beth Bonacci points out, means saving all of it for marriage. All forms of sexual intimacy are "the language of marriage." Secondary VirginityWhat if you haven"t saved sex for marriage? "Start saving it," says Molly Kelly, a chastity educator. Remember, chastity is a moral decision and a spiritual state, not a physical condition. If you"ve made mistakes in the past, you can forgive yourself, seek God"s forgiveness, and, with His help, make a fresh start. Some people call this "choosing secondary virginity." A great many young people have made this choice. In her book The Power of Abstinence (1996), medical writer Kristine Napier sums up the benefits of saving sex for marriage: Waiting will make your dating relationships better. You"ll spend more time getting to know each other. Waiting will help you find the right mate (someone who values you for the person you are). Waiting will increase your self-respect. Waiting will gain the respect of others. Waiting teaches you to respect others; you"ll never pressure anyone. Waiting takes the pressure off you. Waiting means a clear conscience (no guilt) and peace of mind (no conflicts, no regrets). Waiting means a better sexual relationship in marriage (free of comparisons with other premarital partners and based on trust). By waiting, you"re being faithful to your spouse even before you meet him or her.Dr. Janet Smith, a Catholic writer and philosophy professor at the University of Dallas, adds still another reason for saving sex for marriage: By practicing the virtues involved in waiting—such as faithfulness, self-control, modesty, good judgment, courage, and genuine respect for self and others—you"re developing the kind of character that will make you a good marriage partner and attract the kind of person you"d like to marry. What About Homosexuality?Given the media"s intense discussion of homosexuality, young people today naturally ask, "What makes a person u2018gay"? And why shouldn"t gay people be able to have sex, like everybody

其实一共有七个词：Shit, Piss, Fuck, Cunt, Cocksucker, Motherfucker,Tits。据说是George Carlin 搞出来的。后面的‘f" ‘u" ‘c" ‘k"也许是把单词分开读出来 木有说法克。再说美国电视台还分好多种类呢。

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1:Rorschach"s journal,October 12th,1985.Dog carcass in alley this morning,Tire tread on burst stomach. (罗夏日记，1985年10月12日。早上小巷里出现狗的尸体，被轮胎碾过。） 2:This city"safraid of me.I"ve seen it"s true face. （这个城市害怕我，我见过它的真实面孔。） 3:The streets are extended gutters ...and the gutters are full of blood.And when the drains finally scab over...all the vermin will drown.The accumulated filth of all their sex and murder...will foam up around their waists...and all the whores and politicians will look up and shout,"Save us." And I"ll whisper,"No." （街道只是另一种排水沟，而排水沟里流的是血，当排水沟最终毁掉的时候，所有的歹人都会淹死。他们的性和谋杀积累起来的罪行…会把他们淹没，所有的娼妓和政客会大喊，“救命” 我会轻轻地说，“不”） 4:Now the whole world stands on the brink...staring down into bloody hell.All those liberals and intellectuals...and smooth talkers...and all of a sudden,nobody can think of anything to say. (现在整个世界正站在悬崖边上…看着悬崖下的末日。所有的自由主义者，知识分子…和能说会道的政客，都突然不知道该说什么。） 5:Beneath me ,this awful city.It screa***ike an abattoir full of retarded children...and the night reeks of fornication and bad consciences. (我下面的城市，就像充满尖叫的智障儿童的屠宰场…在夜晚到处都是奸情与罪恶。） 6:Tonight,a comedian died in New Yorl.Somebody knows why. (今晚，喜剧演员（守望者之一）死于纽约。有人知道为什么。） 7:Fine like this. (这样就很好。） 8:Attack on one is attack on all of us. (袭击一个人，就是袭击我们所有人。） 9:When you walk down the street in a city dying of rabies...past the human cockroaches...talking about their heroin andchild pornography...do you really feel normal? (当你走在死于狂犬病的城市街道上…经过流氓无赖的身边…听他们谈论海洛因和幼女色情…你真觉得正常么？） 10:No.You"re hiding in plain sight. (不，你是藏在显眼的地方。） 11:Rorschach"s journal:First visit of evening fruitless.Feel slightly depressed.Soon there will be war.Millions will perish in sickness and misery.Why does one death matter anainst so many?Because there is good and evil,and evil must be punished.Even in the face of armageddon...I will not compromise in this. (罗夏日记：第一次拜访徒劳无功。感觉有些压抑。很快就会有战争。数百万人将会死于疾病和痛苦。为什么其中一 个人的死就这么重要？因为存在正义与邪恶，而邪恶必须被惩罚。即使世界末日就要到来

不是缩写 是个单词 相当于中文的“草，靠”之类的 骂人话 动作表示就是竖中指

英语笑话:F.U.C.K.Joke:F.U.C.K.In ancient England people could not have sex unless they had consent of the king (unless they were in the Royal Family ). When people wanted to have a baby, they had to get the consent of the king, and the king gave them a placard that they hung on their door > while they were having sex. The placard hadF.U.C.K.(Fornication Under Consent of the King) on it. Hence that"s where the word Fuck came from.英文笑话:AlligatorJoke:AlligatorA guy walks into a bar with a pet alligator by his side. He puts the alligator up on the bar. He turns to the astonished patrons."I"ll make you a deal. I will open this alligator"s mouth and place my genitals inside. Then the gator will close his mouth for one minute. He will then open his mouth and I willremove my unit unscathed. In return for witnessing this spectacle, each of you will buy me a drink."The crowd murmured their approval. The man stood up on the bar, dropped his trousers, and placed his privates in the alligator"s open mouth. The gator closed his mouth as the crowd gasped. After a minute, the man grabbed a beer bottle and rapped the alligator hard on the top of its head. The gator opened his mouth and the man removed his genitals unscathed as promised. The crowd cheered and the first of his free drinks was delivered. The man stood up again and made another offer."I"ll pay anyone $100 who"s willing to give it a try".A hush fell over the crowd. After a while, a hand went up in the back of the bar. A woman timidly spoke up. "I"ll try, but you have to promise not to hit me on the head with the beer bottle".英语笑话:The ShredderJoke:The ShredderA young executive was leaving the office at 6 p.m. when he found the CEO standing in front of a shredder with a piece of paper in his hand."Listen," said the CEO, "this is a very sensitive and important document and my secretary has left. Can you make this thing work?""Certainly," said the young executive. He turned the machine on, inserted the paper and pressed the start button."Excellent, excellent," said the CEO as his paper disappeared inside the machine. "I just need one copy."英文笑话:Misc Jokes .Joke:Misc Jokes .A motorist was unknowingly caught in an automated speed trap that measured his speed using radar and photographed his car. He later received in the mail a ticket for $40 and a photo of his car.Instead of payment, he sent the police department a photograph of $40.Several days later, he received a letter from the police that contained another picture... of handcuffs. The motorist promptly sent the money for the fine .A woman was reporting her car as stolen, and mentioned that there was a car phone in it. The policeman taking the report called the phone and told the guy that answered that he had read the ad in the newspaper and wanted to buy the car. They arranged to meet, and the thief was arrested.Drug Possession Defendant Christopher Jansen, on trial in March in Pontiac, Michigan, said he had been searched without a warrant. The prosecutor said the officer didn"t need a warrant because a "bulge" in Christopher"s jacket could have been a gun. Nonsense, said Christopher, who happened to be wearing the same jacket that day in court. He handed it over so the judge could see it. The judge discovered a packet of cocaine in the pocket and laughed so hard he required a five minute recess to compose himself.Oklahoma City:Dennis Newton was on trial for the armed robbery of a convenience store in a district court when he fired his lawyer. Assistant district attorney Larry Jones said Newton, 47, was doing a fair job of defending himself until the store manager testified that Newton was the robber. Newton jumped up, accused the woman of lying and then said, "I should of blown your (expletive) head off." The defendant paused, then quickly added, "if I"d been the one that was there."The jury took 20 minutes to convict Newton and recommended a 30 year sentence.Detroit:R.C. Gaitlan, 21 walked up to two patrol officers who were showing their squad car computer equipment to children in a Detroit neighborhood. When he asked how the system worked, the officer asked him for identification. Gaitlan gave them his drivers license, they entered it into the computer, and moments later they arrested Gaitlan because information on the screen showed Gaitlan was wanted for a two year old armed robbery in St. Louis, Missouri.Colorado Springs:Guy walked into a little corner store with a shot gun and demanded all the cash from the cash drawer. After the cashier put the cash in a bag, the robber saw a bottle of scotch that he wanted behind the counter on the shelf. He told the cashier to put it in the bag as well, but he refused and said "Because I don"t believe you are over 21." The robber said he was, but the clerk still refused to give it to him because he didn"t believe him. At this point the robber took his drivers license out of his wallet and gave it to the clerk. The clerk looked it over, and agreed that the man was in fact over 21 and he put the scotch in the bag. The robber then ran from the store with his loot. The cashier promptly called the police and gave the name and address of the robber that he got off the license. They arrested the robber two hours later.

你可以节选一下How to Resist Temptation Satan tempted Jesus in the desert, and Jesus responded by quoting scripture (Matthew 4). However, as you have probably noticed, just quoting scripture does not make temptation go away, and it does not guarantee that we will resist it. After all, even Satan can quote scripture. I would like to recommend some additional strategies in our struggle against sin. Stay out of trouble First, stay away from sin. Don"t go looking for Satan just to show that you can withstand his wiles. We aren"t supposed to go looking for trouble, jumping off of spiritual cliffs and expecting angels to rescue us. What I recommend is the opposite: Draw boundaries for yourself that keep you away from the danger. By boundaries, I do not mean that you see how close you can get to sin without actually going over the line. That is stupid, for the simple reason that our strength of resistance varies from time to time. A boundary that may be safe for us one day may be hazardous to us the next, depending on our emotional state. So a boundary, if it"s going to work, has to be set for our weakest moment, not our strongest. God doesn"t tell us where to put our boundaries, and we all may need slightly different levels of strictness with ourselves. For example, a photo that is sexually suggestive for one person may not even catch the eye of another. Consequently, people have differing ideas of what sort of pictures to avoid. People with a high tolerance should not look down on those with low tolerance—everyone must judge the risk for themselves. A person with high tolerance should not “push” the boundaries of the other, saying it"s OK, for that might cause the person to sin. The person with high tolerance should also remember that it is dangerous to overestimate one"s strength. Many aspects of society are designed to tempt, so don"t forget that you are human. Many of us struggle with temptation in the form of calories. Here, we can break our boundaries every now and then and still recover. Many people have trouble with alcohol, and experience has shown that the safest boundary for most is “absolutely none.” The potential danger is high; the benefits are low; it is simply not worth the risk. Sexual temptations can also be dangerous, because the consequences of sexual sins are severe. We can"t just “recover” a relationship shattered by infidelity. Here, we must set boundaries well away from the danger zone, just to make sure that nothing happens even in our weakest moments. For example, our pastors have been given a boundary: They cannot counsel a woman alone. Although the chances of improprieties may be slim, the devastating consequences make the risk too great to allow private counseling. And for similar reasons, youth ministry workers are not to be alone with a child. Safety is too important to leave to good intentions and assumptions. Avoiding danger Boundaries are required for pastors; they are also good advice for members. For example, it is dangerous for unmarried couples to be together in private in a bedroom. It may not be a sin, but it is not wise. Most of the time it may be “safe” (although it isn"t a very good example). But no one knows in advance when a time of weakness will strike. The danger is too great to take an unnecessary chance. One of our members gave me this example from his experience in construction: When working on a platform three feet off the ground, safety belts were not needed. When working on a platform 30 feet high (even though the chances of falling off were theoretically the same), safety belts were required; all workers had to be attached by rope to something secure. When working on a large flat roof, safety ropes were not required unless the worker was within 12 feet of the edge. In other words, the requirements were adjusted according to risk and the seriousness of the consequences. The safety rules were particularly interesting for working on a large domed roof. At the top of the roof, where the surface is nearly level, the chances of falling down are practically nil, and the chances of injury are low. One could even go 20 feet out from the center, and the slope would still be quite gentle; even if somebody tripped and fell there would be no danger. However, one could go about halfway out and still stand up, but there, the roof has a steep slope and a small stumble might cause a person to fall off the building and die. But there was no identifiable point where danger started. Consequently, workers had to be safety-roped no matter where they were on the roof. No specific “edge” made the dome dangerous, because no one could see where the danger zone started. Lives were at stake, and the only sensible precaution was to require everyone, even people on the flat part of the roof, to be safety-roped. That is what we must sometimes do with temptations. The more serious the consequences of failure, the more cautious we must be. When we are not sure where the danger zone is, we need to back up a bit further to make sure we do not enter it. In other words, if we want to avoid sin, we draw boundary lines for safety, not for getting as close as we can. Some men who travel alone have a boundary in motel rooms: don"t turn the television on. They find it easier to keep it off than to turn it off once it"s on, and they believe that the potential for harm is too great for them to take a risk. Not all men have the same boundary, but at least these men have a boundary that works for them. Avoid pride One lesson we should learn about resisting temptation is that we aren"t very good at it. It is dangerous to trust ourselves to always say “no.” We might say “no” 98 times in a row, and weaken on the 99th time. So one of the best ways to avoid problems is to keep out of situations that test our resolve. If we are tempted, maybe that"s a signal that we are already too close. Paul advises, “Flee fornication!” Don"t take pride in knowing “when to stop.” Don"t trust in your strength to resist. If we are tempted to pad an expense account, we need to keep even more careful records. If we are tempted to use humor that belittles someone else, we need to back off. When we are tempted to take some forbidden fruit, we need to stay far away from it. Get help We can resist sin better when we have help. Peer pressure can keep us honest, if we are with the right kind of peers. We are less likely to suggest something improper when we think the person with us might disapprove. Sometimes it"s helpful to have friends who are more careful than we are. When we hide certain activities, when we have secrets in our closets, we may be in danger. The more open we are, the less we hide, the better others can help us. Scuba divers and mountain climbers know that it"s better to have a buddy. God designed us to walk through life with other people, not on a solo journey. No one has all the strengths—we need the strengths that other people have, too. Some people have “accountability partners” to help them be honest about certain areas of life. Some people have spouses who do the same thing. A formal arrangement may not be necessary, but it can be helpful. It is easier to resist temptation when we know that someone will be checking up on us. A basic principle is, Don"t do anything you don"t want people to find out. When people fall Last, I"d like to note that everybody falls short sometimes. Some people eat too much, some people say too much and some people do too much—and sometimes they get caught. What do we do when a member gets caught—perhaps taken to jail or involved in a premarital pregnancy? Let the person without sin throw the first stone How do we resist the temptation to condemn, or snub or feel superior? Jesus said, Let the person without sin throw the first stone .He told the sinner, “Don"t do it again,” but he told all the others, in effect: “Don"t throw stones. You need grace, too.” Forgive, just as you have been forgiven. We need to remind ourselves that we need forgiveness, too. Forgiveness does not mean that we encourage the person to return to the situation that led to the sin. Rather, we can help the person see that better boundaries are needed. If a person has a weakness in one area, more caution is appropriate. But what if the person doesn"t set wise boundaries, and fails again, and again and again? What if the person seemingly doesn"t learn from the mistakes? Peter asked Jesus about it—how often should we forgive? Seventy times seven, Jesus said ,but he really meant that we shouldn"t keep count. God has forgiven each of us an enormous amount (an infinite amount, since we are given eternal life), and we should be equally generous in forgiving the temporary things of this life. Our attitude toward sin needs to be more lenient for others than it is for ourselves. The best way to resist temptation is to stay away from it. So, what temptations do you struggle with? Is there a better way to avoid the problems? Do you need a friend to help you? Do you need to get professional help? And when others fail, we need to forgive. Are there certain sins that you find hard to forgive? What can you do about that?你可以节选一下

你可以节选一下 How to Resist Temptation Satan tempted Jesus in the desert, and Jesus responded by quoting scripture (Matthew 4). However, as you have probably noticed, just quoting scripture does not make temptation go away, and it does not guarantee that we will resist it. After all, even Satan can quote scripture. I would like to recommend some additional strategies in our struggle against sin. Stay out of trouble First, stay away from sin. Don"t go looking for Satan just to show that you can withstand his wiles. We aren"t supposed to go looking for trouble, jumping off of spiritual cliffs and expecting angels to rescue us. What I recommend is the opposite: Draw boundaries for yourself that keep you away from the danger. By boundaries, I do not mean that you see how close you can get to sin without actually going over the line. That is stupid, for the simple reason that our strength of resistance varies from time to time. A boundary that may be safe for us one day may be hazardous to us the next, depending on our emotional state. So a boundary, if it"s going to work, has to be set for our weakest moment, not our strongest. God doesn"t tell us where to put our boundaries, and we all may need slightly different levels of strictness with ourselves. For example, a photo that is sexually suggestive for one person may not even catch the eye of another. Consequently, people have differing ideas of what sort of pictures to avoid. People with a high tolerance should not look down on those with low tolerance—everyone must judge the risk for themselves. A person with high tolerance should not “push” the boundaries of the other, saying it"s OK, for that might cause the person to sin. The person with high tolerance should also remember that it is dangerous to overestimate one"s strength. Many aspects of society are designed to tempt, so don"t forget that you are human. Many of us struggle with temptation in the form of calories. Here, we can break our boundaries every now and then and still recover. Many people have trouble with alcohol, and experience has shown that the safest boundary for most is “absolutely none.” The potential danger is high; the benefits are low; it is simply not worth the risk. Sexual temptations can also be dangerous, because the consequences of sexual sins are severe. We can"t just “recover” a relationship shattered by infidelity. Here, we must set boundaries well away from the danger zone, just to make sure that nothing happens even in our weakest moments. For example, our pastors have been given a boundary: They cannot counsel a woman alone. Although the chances of improprieties may be slim, the devastating consequences make the risk too great to allow private counseling. And for similar reasons, youth ministry workers are not to be alone with a child. Safety is too important to leave to good intentions and assumptions. Avoiding danger Boundaries are required for pastors; they are also good advice for members. For example, it is dangerous for unmarried couples to be together in private in a bedroom. It may not be a sin, but it is not wise. Most of the time it may be “safe” (although it isn"t a very good example). But no one knows in advance when a time of weakness will strike. The danger is too great to take an unnecessary chance. One of our members gave me this example from his experience in construction: When working on a platform three feet off the ground, safety belts were not needed. When working on a platform 30 feet high (even though the chances of falling off were theoretically the same), safety belts were required; all workers had to be attached by rope to something secure. When working on a large flat roof, safety ropes were not required unless the worker was within 12 feet of the edge. In other words, the requirements were adjusted according to risk and the seriousness of the consequences. The safety rules were particularly interesting for working on a large domed roof. At the top of the roof, where the surface is nearly level, the chances of falling down are practically nil, and the chances of injury are low. One could even go 20 feet out from the center, and the slope would still be quite gentle; even if somebody tripped and fell there would be no danger. However, one could go about halfway out and still stand up, but there, the roof has a steep slope and a small stumble might cause a person to fall off the building and die. But there was no identifiable point where danger started. Consequently, workers had to be safety-roped no matter where they were on the roof. No specific “edge” made the dome dangerous, because no one could see where the danger zone started. Lives were at stake, and the only sensible precaution was to require everyone, even people on the flat part of the roof, to be safety-roped. That is what we must sometimes do with temptations. The more serious the consequences of failure, the more cautious we must be. When we are not sure where the danger zone is, we need to back up a bit further to make sure we do not enter it. In other words, if we want to avoid sin, we draw boundary lines for safety, not for getting as close as we can. Some men who travel alone have a boundary in motel rooms: don"t turn the television on. They find it easier to keep it off than to turn it off once it"s on, and they believe that the potential for harm is too great for them to take a risk. Not all men have the same boundary, but at least these men have a boundary that works for them. Avoid pride One lesson we should learn about resisting temptation is that we aren"t very good at it. It is dangerous to trust ourselves to always say “no.” We might say “no” 98 times in a row, and weaken on the 99th time. So one of the best ways to avoid problems is to keep out of situations that test our resolve. If we are tempted, maybe that"s a signal that we are already too close. Paul advises, “Flee fornication!” Don"t take pride in knowing “when to stop.” Don"t trust in your strength to resist. If we are tempted to pad an expense account, we need to keep even more careful records. If we are tempted to use humor that belittles someone else, we need to back off. When we are tempted to take some forbidden fruit, we need to stay far away from it. Get help We can resist sin better when we have help. Peer pressure can keep us honest, if we are with the right kind of peers. We are less likely to suggest something improper when we think the person with us might disapprove. Sometimes it"s helpful to have friends who are more careful than we are. When we hide certain activities, when we have secrets in our closets, we may be in danger. The more open we are, the less we hide, the better others can help us. Scuba divers and mountain climbers know that it"s better to have a buddy. God designed us to walk through life with other people, not on a solo journey. No one has all the strengths—we need the strengths that other people have, too. Some people have “accountability partners” to help them be honest about certain areas of life. Some people have spouses who do the same thing. A formal arrangement may not be necessary, but it can be helpful. It is easier to resist temptation when we know that someone will be checking up on us. A basic principle is, Don"t do anything you don"t want people to find out. When people fall Last, I"d like to note that everybody falls short sometimes. Some people eat too much, some people say too much and some people do too much—and sometimes they get caught. What do we do when a member gets caught—perhaps taken to jail or involved in a premarital pregnancy? Let the person without sin throw the first stone How do we resist the temptation to condemn, or snub or feel superior? Jesus said, Let the person without sin throw the first stone .He told the sinner, “Don"t do it again,” but he told all the others, in effect: “Don"t throw stones. You need grace, too.” Forgive, just as you have been forgiven. We need to remind ourselves that we need forgiveness, too. Forgiveness does not mean that we encourage the person to return to the situation that led to the sin. Rather, we can help the person see that better boundaries are needed. If a person has a weakness in one area, more caution is appropriate. But what if the person doesn"t set wise boundaries, and fails again, and again and again? What if the person seemingly doesn"t learn from the mistakes? Peter asked Jesus about it—how often should we forgive? Seventy times seven, Jesus said ,but he really meant that we shouldn"t keep count. God has forgiven each of us an enormous amount (an infinite amount, since we are given eternal life), and we should be equally generous in forgiving the temporary things of this life. Our attitude toward sin needs to be more lenient for others than it is for ourselves. The best way to resist temptation is to stay away from it. So, what temptations do you struggle with? Is there a better way to avoid the problems? Do you need a friend to help you? Do you need to get professional help? And when others fail, we need to forgive. Are there certain sins that you find hard to forgive? What can you do about that? 你可以节选一下

A says:I"m sorry.B says:I"m sorry too.A says:I"m sorry three.B says:What are you sorry for?A says:I"m sorry five.

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