- 陶小凡
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SHUT IN BITTER DIFFICULTA long time since I wanted to write an article, the title is called "suffering", I do not know suffering I have too much on him, or I have a special perception of suffering ...In my opinion, life is inseparable from suffering. Life without suffering is perhaps does not exist. Should the existence of such a life may give people "to cope with their light" feeling. I have seen a story about an almost suffering overwhelm people go to worship Buddha. Ask Buddha, why give him such misery, did not think the Buddha said: You are lucky, there is no suffering against the background, you will not know happiness of the mass, you have to bear so much suffering, will have a happy return, because you at every point happy experience must be better than the others several times. Buddha, after all, universal wisdom, his words full of dialectical method, which enables us to realize that life without suffering, there is no profound happiness.Life is inevitable suffering. The suffering is life eternal subject. Not only profane life people encounter suffering, special situation down to the suffering of ordinary people seems very smooth, very superior, a very happy life will bring people suffering. Because suffering is not only a realistic situation, it is a kind of spiritual understanding. I believe all the great mind is a profound realization of suffering.Near-synonyms of suffering and pain, but suffering is not an ordinary pain, it is painful overlay, long-term, large, across the ordinary ability to bear pain.The simplest, most intuitive, most likely to appreciate the suffering perhaps than our senses directly feel the pain. Food, clothing and warm, hungry, when such cases happen by chance, we will feel the pain, when this situation often appear so that our flesh is unbearable, we certainly feel that suffering. Kid we see reflected in the film "White", "Flower Girl", "Lei Feng"s childhood," and so the poor people of oxen and horses better than the pain of life, including their own fathers and our generation many people in life , who did not experience the starveling suffering?The human suffering especially lack of material life the suffering caused mainly is the limitations of the social and historical development brought. If happiness with his freedom, suffering is undoubtedly the product of liberty. The human kingdom to the free kingdom from the inevitable process, also must be get rid of suffering, to earn more happiness process. Ancient and wild times, people is completely natural power to control, their happiness may be the gift of the good nature. Is science and technology and the development of human civilization to constantly get rid of natural fetters, and constantly realize its "the soul of the universe length", "master of the heaven and the earth""s main body status, so as to give yourself earn more freedom and happiness.Suffering is not only a kind of life experience, is also a kind of spirit of the course. Its roots deep in thought the internal contradictions of human spirit. The human mind from the inner spirit of the deep contradiction to always get rid of suffering. For example, the ultimate meaning of life, so that a fixed all philosophical and religious proposition, give human wisdom mind caused many of you may not be able to imagine the suffering. I own university age was struggling to recover this proposition, anguish extremely melancholy expression, is the work I was saved by Tolstoy was perplexed. But a few years ago, when I of the old, incredibly was this proposition trapped down, at that time the spirit appeared to crisis, until now seems to have only confused to conclude without concrete result. Many people look good in the people, successful people maybe because too persist in pain and the meaning of life nothing and to extricate themselves, even on the way of self-destruction. Through the ages, how many philosophers, poets, artists, etc on the self destruction non-return road! Who can know them to destruction in the process of how much experience the suffering of the soul? Be like again, love, this is life and art and a theme of lasts and never dies. This theme contains more than happiness, or suffering much, may be unable to process statistics, but love, it was deeply hurt countless a pure heart after it, and even make many people because it feel unbearable suffering, and, as a result, even to destruction, but affirmation is the fact that does not dispute. German giant Goethe"s young werther because of exquisite and a truthful picture of a pure and difficult to realize how to destroy the love of a young and become bards sublime. While China"s "butterfly lovers" "TianXianPei" the beautiful and pathos has historic, precisely because they reflect people"s love ideal. Tragedy and become aesthetic ideal paradigm, this itself may prove a pursuit is capable of human nature and the sufferingSuffering is the human life to the world and the most popular a kind of spiritual experience, suffering made the human culture-a rarity in religion. No doubt, the builder of the great religions, are the great human suffering of the dao. "Surely he clung to the suffering of beyond without recourse to the last of the great religious system founded, he is the save bitterness save difficult. Whether the Christian original sin said, or buddhist causality, religious fundamentally must be to the suffering of the interpretation and look for free. Humans can"t get away from affliction, and human need to seek beyond suffering, this just have religious existing inevitable.Here have to mention is the religious to go beyond the suffering a teaching, that is critical, denial and give up the desire. The so-called "immense suffering at". Here "suffering" for "to" born, "turn back" but to desire of give up. Religious teachings tell us, only give up desire, able to get rid of the pain. This and secular abundance is the same. Admittedly, the desire that is in a lot of the root of the trouble, give up desire, passions, let the heart has no desire to the pure land, and the world holding a brimless accept recognized attitude, sometimes it really is the suffering of a heart with a law of liberation. But please don"t also forget, suffering because of the desire is not all born, desire also is not all the nasty read aloud; Desire is just in cannot be met, not only realize to the person with painful feeling, and the normal desire pursue is not only the life value a realization, is an inexhaustible motive force of social development of mankind, is human to the physical and the mental constantly rich inner basis. If really vanished desires, one might now still stays in the primitive society. And the primitive society is more happiness, I think is not the answer. For the temptation of desire, sometimes seems to endeavour clinging, sometimes had stand aloof, exactly how to grasp, perhaps only "wise man" to insight into the number. However, from the point of view of suffering from heart, give up desires to one side of the kingdom of heaven is undoubtedly ladder......Suffering is the eternal theme of human, no matter how society development, no matter how material civilization and spiritual civilization highly developed. Suffering is the life in the topic of this have justice. Suffering is the creator of the soul of the universe as a long thought of the human spirit of the special gift. Notice given with the spiritual consciousness our creator, is not the dao is dedicated to the happiness of pleasure, and only in the set off of suffering, happiness, and the flower of pleasure to open to be extremely delicate and charming!