陶小凡-
原创
Can we change our fate？
No one was born to an unchangeable life,our fate depends on our own efforts .
Just as countless famous and successful people in history suffered a lot,we ordinary people can also overcome obstacles to get what we pursue with our perseverance and determination.
First ,we must build up our own confidence and believe our friends"encourage,which is basic but indispensable to our success.Second,apart from the strong beliefs,what we need to equip ourselves and to carry out the plan is to not to give up easily.If we can insist on doing the right things step by step,someday we will achieve our dream.Third,keeping up with the time and always being optimistic and easygoing will also benifit us a lot.Last , we are supposed to keep in mind that god always do the diligent one a favor.(天道酬勤）
From above,personally,if we can keep fit both mentally and physically,it won"t be much difficult and tough for us to change our fate.Now that a large number of people have demonstrated they have changed their fate successfully,why can"t we?
北有云溪-
In our daily life, we are always used to seek for the reasons for the troubles we confronted with in life and working, but we seldom to find the true reason from ourselves. why we have this kind of feeling in our life, since we often try to find the reasonable pretense for everything we have not finished in the due time, we often try to find the unpracticable answer from other people, in a word, we are always try to escape the responsibility and not willing to realize our shortcomings ......
Why this happens to us so often, I think the true reason is that we can not have a good habit of our work and life, and we do not have a good understanding of our personality and character, if only we can change our attitude from some aspects, I think everything around us will have a good improvement and our life will filled with love and care, and everyday is a sunny day to us. This is mean that we should learn to appreciate not scold people and everything in our life and we should learn to find the true reason from ourselves at first not from others, we should try to stand in other"s feet not our benefit when we cooperate with our colleague in the company, we should try to like and have a great passion for our working not just regard them as the routine thing, we should confidence of our capability not give up when we meet with some difficulties, we should try to do ourselves not imitate other people for he or she is a famous people ,the most important things is that we should try to summarize the valuable experience from other people"s successful event not try to become the second her or she, since we always ourselves …
Therefore, when we try to hunt for the first job after we graduated form the college or university, if the interviewer informed us that we do not have a good experience and do not have a fluent English, we should not feel very angry and complain the society, why I can not find my first job, why so many company need the students to own experience, if so, there are so many educated people can not find the suitable job when they go out the “ivory tower” at the beginning, in fact ,we should take the interviewer"s words seriously ,we should think over our status, if I am really qualified for the new job, if not , we should try to understand this sector at first and the try to find what we should do if I really entered into this sector in the end, if we want to do the foreign trade, we should known the flow of international trade and try to train our spoken English , only by doing so we can seek for the suitable job soon and find our position according to our talend. We should appreciate the interviewer who made us found our shortcoming and made us stand in a new stage in your career, we should not complain...
We are working and living in a big society and group, we should not think we are all-round talent and we can finish everything very well, we should always need others help and assistant, therefore, it is normal if we have some conflict with our colleague or friends, in some cases, our colleagues are not have the intention to hurt you and just you think he or she have a bad attitude to you unilaterally, or other people are really want to help not show off their knowledge and power.
If some executive help you to revise the email which you have written to you customers, do not feel frustrated and uncomfortable, we should believe they are just hope we can improve our language skills and not negate your working, since different area and country have different customs and business background, if we have a accurate expression, we can win our customers trust in a short time. Maybe one day when we attain this position, we may have a more strict with our staff , so we should try to learn and consult with other people at any time, and keep a appreciate feeling not suspicious of others kindness . Many people think that our working is monotony , every day we repeat the same thing and keep the same rhythm , we always regard our work as a routine thing, we are dislike to overwork and dislike to have a new task and meet with the new challenge. But only when we like our current job we can finish it perfectly , so if you do not like you job, you should try to cultivate your feeling and interesting to like the job you work in for now from this moment, you should try to find the happiness and fullness from your job, you should pour into your passion to the wok , if you begin to like you job, you will change you attitude to many things ,you are certain to like the world you lived in for so many years and find the happy resources and own a good habit of your life since the working time take up one third time in our life, if we can not enjoy the happiness and satisfaction in this one third time, how we can own a perfect life in the living day.
The life is filled with joys and sorrows , we will face with many unfair and unhappy things once a while, we are always admire other"s talent and achievement, when the Olympics games player win the medal , we are always acclaim their achievement and proud of them, at the same time ,we will arise a admiration from the bottom of my heart, how miraculous if I can become he or she one day. When we see some successful enterpriser in the paper and magazine , we are always think why I am not become the famous people, why I can not become a successful one even though I have take great efforts to do them. But if you have considered over that their unbeknown pain and hardworking behind their success , they spend every minutes on training and working when we enjoy our leisure life and have a relaxation. Therefore, we must confidence of ourselves at first , we must believe we can become a useful people one day, we must believe we can find our own position in the society if we insist on our goal and dream if we take action now and make great pains to our goal. The most important thing for us is that we should try to absolute the good experience from the distinguished people , we should try to sum up the useful methods which suitable to us , we should not copy other"s lifestyle and working way since we are ourselves not others .
My dear friend, do not worry about your now positions, we should believe that we are the one who can change and hold our fate, no matter what happens to us ,we should learn to keep a good attitude to our life and the people who around us, if we put this into practice, I believe we can attain surprise everyday, we will find our life have vital force from now on, we are stand in a new stage and stand in a road which lead to success……..
可可-
Teachers let me into the house, then followed himself in, closed the door. He looked with interest, when looked at. He had me from behind and gently holding his waist. At this point, I will face my Hemi posted on the back of generous teacher. I have already waited too long, so come now, you can not let go. I felt unlimited happiness of my whole body is wrapped, tightly tied, let me let go. At the same time that happiness has also caught my soul, my mind. Does not allow me to do more thinking and judging.
When I firmly affixed to his body when the body of the teacher, the teacher clearly felt my chest rise and fall with haste. However, the teacher forced the own impulse, keeps his mind clear. He compared me, after all, a mature man, married man. Experience life more than me, there are family responsibilities. These allow him to such and such a student contacts.
Teachers no longer feel his breathing start smoothly, the whole body heat. An impulse of desire in his heart began to form a wave, then burst to burst towards the embankment he maintained unleashed.
He held out his hand, grabbed my hand, he tried to separate my hand. However, gone, everything gone. When his hands come into contact with my hands together when the skin by direct contact, as will the current shuttle line. Teachers no longer try to divide my hand, but hard to grasp. He felt my skin smooth and delicate elastic. He could not help imagining this beautiful girl"s body mystery. Hero becomes a prisoner, not to mention teacher?
Everything has come to getting out of control. Teachers no longer have their own mind is a teacher, a married man these relationships. He turned to take the initiative to me in his arms, and I his back, he saw my red lips. He gently his lips up at once. Ah, what a wonderful feeling, this is a married teacher has never had a marvelous feeling. I did not dodge his lips, we are so lucky to still a bit wild, embrace the. They both backward until the bed.
In the teacher"s eyes, my face and my body like a perfect charm, impeccable, but also the soul of intake. He used his scholar"s slender hand in my body lovingly and gently stroking back and forth. Dianluandaofeng, emergence immortality. This is the first time that the teacher felt the beauty of sex.
Just then, someone opened the door in, then the teacher not scared of three six-soul spirit, the kind of tenderness that Miyi Yeah, all of all of his body from the full run without the shadow. He suddenly pushed me aside, sat up quickly to their own. He reached his own that he finds pieces of T shirt. But the clothes were not in bed. Just kind of blowing hot and cold, and which will also take into account the clothes put away. He found ranging from clothes, the door opened.
Teacher at this time pumping himself wished he could have a harsh slap in the face a few. Finally brought to light the thing is. He was known as the youth of this model of university teachers. Actually will be under someone else"s ignorant and stripped naked, this is not the focus, focus with their students in the dormitory with stripped naked. It also requires defending it? It really is bad to the extreme. Let teachers regret most is that bin should be dressed after, then sit together to talk with the students, so that other people saw it, whatever the outcome, it will not be such a fool of myself. But he is forgetting the situation, the student body had too much nostalgia. This will be guys, and let people taking it every has. If after this spread out, he is not only no way to Professor Xiang Lao his benefactor gives a reasonable explanation, I"m afraid that he may be the school a demerit. Even demerits such light punishment, but its also on the podium to teach you? He also had this status?
蓓蓓-
Everyday we read something, no matter it is newspaper，a book, or an advertisement.
But there is a question – how to read? Or in other words, should we read selectively or should we read extensively.
My answer is both. Let me show you how to read both selectively and extensively.
From now on, you read everything. It is proved that human brain has incredible capacity to store information, so you do not need to worry there is no space. The only problem is time - you have no time to read so much. So if you read everything, you need to improve your reading speed. For much information is useless, do not focus on it. You only need to pick up the main point and read as fast as you can. That is extensive reading.
Once you find an important book, a useful sentence. You read it carefully, and think over it. This is selective reading.
Hope my suggestion is helpful.