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Learn to say “no”For most of us ,saying “no” is very difficult.We don"t want to offend or disappoint people.As a result,we have to spend too much of our time and energy on doing things,which seriously interferes our work.But it requires a great time and energy for us to pursue our goal.In fact,not only do we have to devote most of our time but also our heart and soul.Therefore,even if a request is legitimate and important,sometimes we just have to say “no” in order to prevent too great a toll on our time.And it is possible to decline a request in ways that do not seem rude or unkind.Here are some nice ways to say “no”.You may pay a compliment as you say “no”.Take a university professor,Delores,for example,when someone calls asking him to serve on their board,and he knows that he just can"t do it.He often say,“ I"m so glad you thought of me.I am a big fan of your orgnization,but my schedule just won"t allow me to accept your invitation.” You may also decline in a positive way.For example,“That"s a good product,but it"s not something we can use at this time,” is a gentle way to say “no”.Buy yourself some time.Seldom do you have to give a yes or no answer on the spot.Even if you feel strongly that your answer will be no.Buy yourself sometime by saying “Let me think about it”,“Let me talk it over with my family” and so on.

To make it easy, there are three simple tips to say no to other people.The easiest way to reject others" requests is just saying, “Iu2019m sorry. I can"t do this right now.” Use a sympathetic, but firm tone. If pressured as to why, reply that it doesnu2019t fit with your schedule, and change the subject. Most reasonable people will accept this as an answer, so if someone keeps pressuring you, theyu2019re being rude, and itu2019s OK to just repeat, “Iu2019m sorry, but this just doesnu2019t fit with my schedule," and change the subject, or even walk away if you have to.However,if youu2019re uncomfortable being so firm, or are dealing with pushy people, itu2019s OK to say, “Let me think about it and get back to you.” This gives you a chance to review your schedule, as well as your feelings about saying "yes" to another commitment, do a cost-benefit analysis, and then get back to them with a yes or no. Most importantly, this tactic helps you avoid letting yourself be pressured into overscheduling your life and taking on too much stress.If you would really like to do what theyu2019re requesting, but donu2019t have the time (or are having trouble accepting that you donu2019t), itu2019s fine to say, “I canu2019t do this, but I canu2026” and mention a lesser commitment that you can make. This way youu2019ll still be partially involved, but it will be on your own terms.Well, in vast majority of situations, your self-care is always a valid excuse to say no. No need over-explain or defend your decision. Be graceful and honest. You might say something like: "I"m sorry, but it"s just not possible for me to do that," or, "I"ll have to decline but thank you anyway." As you practice saying no, it will get easier. Hope all the informations above are helpful to you, best regard.

we"ve all been taught that we should help people. it is the right thing to do and will make us popular with others. it may even win us favors in return. however, we must be realistic. we can"t say yes to every request. if we did, we would fail or go crazy for sure. sometimes we simply don"t have the time to help. in this case, we must know how to say no politely.　　when we need to say no, here is one method we can try. first, we should tell the truth. if we really can"t do something, we should just say so. second, we should remember to refuse requests politely. we must communicate clearly, but must also be sincere and sympathetic. a true friend will understand. finally, we must not feel guilty about saying no. sometimes refusing others is the right thing to do. it can save ourselves, and them, a lot of trouble. in short, we cannot please everyone all the time. refusing favors is a part of life. 满意不？

Learn to say no Among different religions, have you ever sensed the coincidental similarity？Have you ever pondered what the similar essences are truly about? In my opinion, they are all asking people to restrain our natural desires, to say no to ourselves. Wise man says no to himself, not to others. The reason for any trouble or failure can be traced within ourselves. Even if we seem innocent, there must be a reason for someone to trip us up. We"d better examine our own behaviors, correct our faults and avoid similar mistakes thereafter. We are now facing the most unstable period in our life, youth. We run eagerly into the sparkling world, without sufficient judgment, precaution, and the consciousness of saying no. The world is fascinating, yet complicated. We are surrounded by all kinds of temptations from the outside. Yet I still believe it"s not the environment that affects us most. Someone with powerful ego goes along with the outside world just like anyone else and holds his ground silently at the same time. True power can hardly be seen. As time goes by, he who tells himself not to follow the trends blindly will certainly get his reward. Once I was climbing up Mount Huang, gasping for breath. An intriguing idea burst into my mind and supported my exhausted body during the rest of my journey—the mountain is me myself, just seems huger. It was my own weakness that I was overcoming, not the mount. Humanity is naturally weak, we say no to strengthen it gradually. Buddhists have to obey disciplines that make them say no to human weakness. They try to take off layers covering them to approach the undying inner self and to purify their spirits. They never drink to keep their self-discipline. My dad has a schoolmate that believes in Buddhism and he was once made drunken to answer questions subconsciously, in order to check. Rules are established to dismantle, so as saying no. When we are finally at the peak of cultivation after the long process of saying no to ourselves, it doesn"t matter if we slack off any more. Confucius said, "since 70, I have been able to do what I intend freely without breaking the rules." Life can be easy, for those people who are simply satisfied with playing cards. It can be tough, for us who have bigger ambitions and are willing to strive for them, who dare to say no to ourselves, to refuse the coziness for now, and fight for tomorrow. It won"t be hard for us later on when it comes to the time that we can get what we deserve. I think the restraint and diligence are worth suffering. Learn to say no, suffer now, enjoy then.

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I′d like to introduce myself to you. My name is Fan Shi ze. I was born in Beijing Tongzhou district. I′m seventy-four years old. I have retired from Beijing mining department. I used to be a senior accountant. I′m living communication community of Haidian district. I have many hobbies, but I′m very interested in English. Before I retired, I had been very busy because our company business was very bad. I almost had meetings every day. After retirement I was no longer busy at my work.In April 2008, I participated in the vigorous mass campaign for welcoming the Olympics and learning English. At the same time, I joined in a team of public order and showing the way. Studying English is always important in my life, I think it is very interesting. English and computer will be the most important in the 21st century. I have been learning English for four years. I think studying English is for adapting to the times, improving Beijing foreign language environment to achieve the goal of a world city. Facilitate foreign exchange and communication, it′s strong in people′s mind, improving our immunity and good for our health.For making more progress, in my opinion, it′s important to lay a good foundation. If myself don′t practice spoken language, I will lose myself interest in English. I should read more , write more and practice more. I always want to improve myself in my English. I usually recite new words and expressions at nights and recite the notes at every morning. On the weekends I never go out of the living room, because I must review English and do homework. I often go to English films and listen to English radio programs, which are also good ways to learn English. I think it helpful to speak English. I have spent quite a lot of time learning English, but I still don′t know much about English. I like speaking English very much, but my grammar is not good, I am frightened to talk with foreigners, I sometimes make some mistakes in spoken English test, and I have many difficulties in understanding spoken English. My memory is very poor since long time, in order to remember the words and sentences, except to take course. I also need to practice what I have learned from class. I found my way to learn English, I usually review lessons first, while I′m doing physical exercise in the park in the morning. I start to recall how to say ‘please keep off the grass" and ‘what is it tense?"When I stretch my body beside a tree , I try to understand the tree′s name ,some are peach trees and some are pear trees with flower blossom in spring. I also found another good way to practice. One day I read newspaper there was a short article both in English and Chinese in the paper. It said ‘Chinese people were friends of people all over the world", I read English first and try to understand the meaning, the checked in Chinese, sometimes I hit it. I really enjoy speaking English with primary or secondary school students, because they can correct my pronunciation. When I have my Chinese accents, we can talk about their campus lives and how to speak English well. I ′m just a beginner of learning English, I can speak English only a little. To meet the needs of our times, I must study harder, I should have a new start. No pains, no gains. Gread efforts will be rewarded by great progress. Though I′m no young any more, I as if still have many energy, I wish us youth forever.

learn指“学会，学到”，也指从研究、经验或他人的教授中获得知识或技能，学习的对象通常是初级阶段带有模仿性的操作技艺等，侧重学习的成果，一般不含有努力的意味。study多用于叫高深或周密的研究，侧重学习的过程，强调“研究”，含有努力的意味。class指课堂、上课、班级。强调形式。lesson指功课、课业，教材中的某一课。强调内容。

learn，读音：英[lu025cu02d0n]，美[lu025cu02d0rn]。释义：vt.学习；得知；认识到。vi.学习；获悉。例句：How long will it take me to learn a language well?学好一种语言大概会花我多长时间？变形：过去式learned或learnt，过去分词learned或learnt，现在分词learning，第三人称单数learns。learn的用法learn的基本意思是“学，学习”，指通过他人的讲授或从经验中获得知识或技能，表示处于初级阶段或具有技术性的学习活动，强调的是一个由“不知道”到“知道”的过程，也可表示学习的成果，即“学会，学到”。还可指“听说，得知”。learn作“听说，获悉”解时，是传达信息的动词，常可用一般现在时来代替一般过去时。

learn，读音：英[lu025cu02d0n]，美[lu025cu02d0rn]。释义：vt.学习；得知；认识到。vi.学习；获悉。例句：How long will it take me to learn a language well?学好一种语言大概会花我多长时间？变形：过去式learned或learnt，过去分词learned或learnt，现在分词learning，第三人称单数learns。learn的用法learn的基本意思是“学，学习”，指通过他人的讲授或从经验中获得知识或技能，表示处于初级阶段或具有技术性的学习活动，强调的是一个由“不知道”到“知道”的过程，也可表示学习的成果，即“学会，学到”。还可指“听说，得知”。learn作“听说，获悉”解时，是传达信息的动词，常可用一般现在时来代替一般过去时。

learn，读音：英[lu025cu02d0n]，美[lu025cu02d0rn]。释义：vt.学习；得知；认识到。vi.学习；获悉。例句：How long will it take me to learn a language well?学好一种语言大概会花我多长时间？变形：过去式learned或learnt，过去分词learned或learnt，现在分词learning，第三人称单数learns。learn的用法learn的基本意思是“学，学习”，指通过他人的讲授或从经验中获得知识或技能，表示处于初级阶段或具有技术性的学习活动，强调的是一个由“不知道”到“知道”的过程，也可表示学习的成果，即“学会，学到”。还可指“听说，得知”。learn作“听说，获悉”解时，是传达信息的动词，常可用一般现在时来代替一般过去时。扩展资料：重点词汇用法：learnv （动词）1、learn的基本意思是“学，学习”，指通过他人的讲授或从经验中获得知识或技能，表示处于初级阶段或具有技术性的学习活动，强调的是一个由“不知道”到“知道”的过程，也可表示学习的成果，即“学会，学到”。还可指“听说，得知”。2、learn可用作及物动词，也可用作不及物动词。用作及物动词时，接名词、动名词、（带疑问词的）动词不定式、或由that或疑问词引导的从句作宾语。当作“教”或“给某人一个教训”解时，还可接双宾语，偶尔还可接以形容词充当补足语的复合宾语。3、learn作“听说，获悉”解时，是传达信息的动词，常可用一般现在时来代替一般过去时。

1、learning英[?l??n??]美[?l??rn??]，n.学习; 知识; 学问; 学识;v.学; 学习; 学到; 学会; 听到; 得知; 获悉; 记住; 背熟; 熟记;learn的现在分词。2、[例句]Id like to learn a new language.我想学习一门新的语言。

1、learning英[u02c8lu025cu02d0nu026au014b]美[u02c8lu025cu02d0rnu026au014b]，n.学习; 知识; 学问; 学识;v.学; 学习; 学到; 学会; 听到; 得知; 获悉; 记住; 背熟; 熟记;learn的现在分词。 2、[例句]Id like to learn a new language.我想学习一门新的语言。

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What is the best way of learning English? Don"t rush to look for the answer, since the question is too big for one to tell about what you expected, but everyone can learn English more efficiently with the help of a good way of learning. “I can speak a little bit, but can"t express myself clearly. Moreover, people often misunderstand what I mean.” I bet that many English-Chinese Dictionaries or glossaries can be found out in your study, while there is none of English-English dictionary on your book shelf. Even if there is any, it has probably never been used. Like most of learners, you must have spent oceans of time on building up your vocabulary. However, you rarely try to understand what a word really means in English, and as a result, you are frequently misunderstood when speaking. Another problem is that you can not express yourself before others tell you how. Strange enough, they used the words which you seemingly had known very well. You had unconquerable difficulties to make them alive, because you had been addicting to the bad habits of learning Chinese explanations of English words. One should learn English words from meaning to meaning, not from words to words, since one thing rooted in a specific culture has its uniquity. In other words, it is very difficult to find the equivalent between two cultures. The explanations of a word do not be what it exactly means in English. Obviously, you always try to find an equivalent between Chinese and English. That is the reason why you are misunderstood. You will be able to use the words properly and naturally, if you understand what it means in English. It is high time that you put you English-Chinese Dictionary away. From now on, use the one in English explanation. As an English learner, I hope more people provide us with their experiences of learning English. The flowing are some topics about English. Don"t hesitate to make contact with me, if you love the language too

小题1:C小题1:C小题1:C小题1:C小题1:C 小题1:细节计算题。根据文中“A working American has to work hard for 8 hours a day or 40 hours a week.”可计算出一个美国工人每周工作五天。故选C。小题1:细节理解题。根据文中“In the street you can hardly see a man who walks slowly.”可知美国人走路非常的快。故选C。小题1:细节理解题。通过文中“When a person is dying, they say he is living on borrowed time.”可知答案选C。小题1:细节理解题。通过文中“In his free time, he also works hard for more money.” 可知答案选C。小题1:细节理解题。通过文中“But sometimes they also hate time, for they feel they have become servants（仆人）of the clock.”可知C项描述的不正确。故选C。

　Some people believe that university students should be required to attend classes. Others believe that going to classes should be optional for students. Which point of view do you agree with? Use specific reasons and details to explain your answer.　　Some people may believe that going to classes should be optional, but I disagree. I don"t understand how university students can expect to learn anything if they don"t attend classes. Personal experience can help people learn about themselves and the world outside the classroom, but when it comes to learning about academic subjects, students need to be in class.　　In class they receive the benefit of the teacher"s knowledge. The best teachers do more than just go over the material in than class textbook. They draw their students into discussion of the material. They present opposing points of view. They schedule guest speakers to come, give the students additional information, or show documentary films on the subject.　　Also, attending classes on any subject teaches more than just facts. It teaches students how to learn, how to absorb information and then apply what they"ve learned to other situations. Their teacher is the best one to help them with these skills. They can"t learn them just by reading the textbook.　　Going to class also teaches students how to work with the other members of the class. Many times students will be given group assignments. This is different from what they did in secondary school. Here they"re with people from different backgrounds and experiences. In this situation, they learn how to handle working with people different from themselves to achieve a common goal.　　Going to class also teaches students responsibility and discipline. Having to be at a particular place at a particular time prepares them for getting a job. Being at a place on time with an assignment completed prepares them for a career.　　In short, by going to class students learn more than just information from the teacher. They also learn how to learn, how to work with others, and how to work responsibly. These are not optional skills in life, so attending classes should not be optional in college.

You take the left foot into the door, you looked around the hall, the sound can be heard without end stops, you seea young mother was sitting in the passenger seat and, hands are holding a crying baby, as the end of volume andtone, as if whispering, arms holding, is the only treasure in the world. The sun through the dust fall in her browncurls, shadows scattered on the ground, outline their detailed outline. Suddenly, you feel like crying.You think of your dear mother, morning do you favorite chicken, you think of him to dress when you carefully, you think of her quarrel with you when you think of her anger, when washing clothes back, you think you have a view you as the only treasure. You can be good for the world and willful neglect her, you can take her to your connivance aside dismissive, you can also back to other SMS phone but forgot her worry, you can also like now toput everything into the community to the free heart for life and all the burden of losing give her. Of course you can go to the outside after twenty years may scenery lichen homecoming for her BMW LV package, but the whole worldnow, you just because she is your mother she love you dare to think so, and this is the only reason she became so humble.