Recently read the famous writer liu2 yong sir commenting Taiwan an article in the "Chinese children smile why American children less than?" , speak of a pretty interesting data is: 2007 American psychologist Linda"s card, 28 th international conference in psychology: three years old Chinese children smile, 55.6% less than their peers creative American children are the source of happiness her argument is to more than 40 children from the smile of the record, comparison and analysis, and the two countries children"s mentality and personality differences research. She think China children smile less reason, and parents unreasonable expectations and to the life of the child too much in charge, so that children learn less able to look has the very big relations of. Some say the Chinese children is the big hold, the children in the United States is the big climb... It is a real image description of! Some say the Chinese children is the big hold, the children in the United States is big I want to climb the main reason is because different conditions, China and the United States family education to children"s way and the interaction between parents, there are many differences between point of view and under the influence of traditional thinking. The United States, for example, parents used to praise and encourage way, let children face difficulty-even fail, and Chinese parents, will the child has a setback or uneven show anxieties. To praise and encourage, help children to try to have the dream childhood was happy from the habit "do-it-yourself" americans respect child"s idea, from mutual communication to children in opinion; Chinese parents will be to "himself through the bridge, than a child more than the road" to make decisions for children, help children avoid difficulty experts say, children room for simple line, color bright design I often watch colleagues and friends, in the lives and their children get along with, they found in children"s respect, and grew up in a creative inspiration, really is to let the children appear confident and happy reason kingdom TV was held a fun activity, before the end of the summer, to provide university students to small amounts of budget, let them develop originality, within budget planning to buy life for design and decorate their new dormitory. Used to train their use of money and new life into the idea and arrangement. When the results were published, many unique idea, that"s the clap! In fact, most of the American parents since the childhood training the children in his own right, I often see children sell in sitting in the stroller, when mom and dad got the goods before, they will be very assertive nodded or shake head, or staggered, with a pair of small fat hand picked up what you want, the appearance is so cute! Or single from child to his room this one thing to see, you will find a lot of interesting phenomenon: Asia"s mother most for their children"s interior finishing, the children in the United States would do it herself. If have a chance to visit the United States children room, is also a kind of interesting "found that journey," because you will see different personality, different hobbies, different talent, different children thinking direction, created a dream of a different small kingdoms. The children love go-before of the present sums up the furnishings someone made a census research, through the choice of children indoor color, also let parents to know more about the mentality of the children-according to child psychologists do, sums up like yellow color children found, dependence is stronger; Prefer green and blue children, the personality is gentle, stability; Like orange and red child, individual character quite lively and outgoing, optimistic, feeling rich; Pink and purple and love of children, is more tolerant, obedient, and less mind"s eye. A record of youth laughter and expectation for the future dream childhood was happy, can put the dream into reality, the more training the child"s confidence, perhaps because of this, the children always have a smile on his face.
